And maybe if you could read you'd see it was a bedroom she used to sleep in years ago when she was a child and stayed around

How tf are you getting downvoted? Who goes to someone else's house for a party, fucks off upstairs and has sex while everyone is still here. Like maybe if you were in college or something buts it's literally a family house filled with family members

I agree with ya a family party in a house you used to stay at is not the best time to have sex. If it was their current place sure the aunt us at fault party or not.

What else you could have done? Let her make her own choices. It's not your job to intervene. You can make her aware and let her make an informed decision. You don't have to like her choices and people need to sometimes make mistakes to learn from that and grow.

I truly hope you will too but so far I mostly read from you: Yeah I fucked up and then a justification.

Good intentions do NOT justify the means. You did see " red flags" and became the red flag.

yh... seems like u r the red flag my dude

Maybe your aunt learned to knock and wait properly like a normal person.

Old bedroom...

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"I love a woman. Just ask Aunt Busybody, she'll back me up."

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Your argument about the so called knocking-culture would only be valid if OP was in her own bedroom, or in the toilet. Not in someone else's house, where she doesn't live anymore, during a family gathering.

Okay

Biphobia is an aversion and dislike towards bi people. It's like homophobia – not all homophobes are "scared" of gay people. C'mon dude Google is free.

Swiss Miss hot chocolate, and I'm assuming at least some other brands of instant hot chocolate, put milk in the powder.

That reminds me of this video

https://youtu.be/uRGljemfwUE

Always lock the door lol.

It was a bedroom, not a bathroom. And a quick knock before opening isn't abnormal, though I agree it's dumb if you don't wait a few seconds

You should either have walked away from the friendship, or done nothing. Cause now you lose the friendship no matter what.

If you cared about her as your friend, and not as someone who you feel romantically entitled to, then you'd support her decision and keep supporting her autonomy. You don't get to force her to do anything.

At least it's not Berlin.

You did something manipulative, which is what you're saying makes Felix a bad person.

This isn’t an excuse but I care about her and yeah I shouldn’t have done it but what else could I have done?

I don’t want to force her to break up with him but she’s going to get hurt either way. I’ll be lucky if she forgives me and we start talking again. It was in the heat of the moment and I took the only opportunity I saw and it was fucked up.

That’s what I do. I break expensive things and make people laugh.

Probably cause she doesn’t expect to see OP and her girlfriend hiding away nakedly sucking mounds in what was probably a children’s room.

I think I stepped out of my place and did something I shouldn’t have, I didn’t know what else to do at the time since I didn’t want her to get hurt

If Felix is a bad guy for being manipulative, what exactly is it that you think you did?