Nah you like the same kind of peepee that you have and you're gay.

Yeah exactly, there was no reason I could see for anyone to even go there.

Heating up as in more people started showing up, I don't like large crowds so it got stressful

Different aunt

Yeah bud. Liking someone doesnt give u the authority to be a dick and invade her privacy by trying to hamper their relationship. Sure, felix could be a manipulative and toxic guy, but u gotta remember that it's your friend's choice to be with whoever they like. The only thing I'm getting from reading this post is that you are the one acting like a walking red flag. I'm 19 now so I've been in your shoes only recently but going through someone's phone and texting other people behind their backs isn't something I wouldn't even contemplate doing.

Didn't pay attention to who it was that wrote this when reading, seemed like a familiar story, but i didn't read it 8 years ago, then saw you earlier in comments. But everyone should give your stories over there a read.

Why are you having sex at a family get together?

It's still my old bedroom

It was a different aunt from the one in that group chat

Oh lort. Please dump this toxic gatekeeping trash.

Next time she tries to kiss you, is she going to all of a sudden forget that she said you aren’t gay?

I know you have a lot of shame and identity shit to contend with, so please. DTMFA and go to therapy so you don’t continue to brush off when someone tries to tear you down like that.

Growing up without a door must have been hard for you, I can understand, fortunately I can’t relate. I hope that nowadays you have a door and lock so no more boundaries are breached and you can finally be in peace with it and let it go. Have a wonderful Sunday. :)

Your gf is straight up biphobic

But you do like her, which means everything you do and say is suspect because you're seeing it through that lense. You can't help people who don't want it and most people won't welcome your interference in their lives. Mind your own business

The thing that astounds me here is the sheer audacity of someone knocking and then opening the door without waiting for a response. I had it out with my mother-in-law several times before she finally stopped doing that shit.

(My wife, mother-in-law, and I all got a house together.)

I've never understood it. What's the point of the knock?

Door doesn't lock

Next time she wants to say something stupid about you not being 'allowed' to dance, play this for her.

https://youtu.be/AjPau5QYtYs

You're Gf sucks. By her standard, me as a pansexual isn't gay.

Find a new partner. Your gf is biphobic. Plenty of people use gay as an umbrella term within the community. You can as well and if your gf has a problem with it then they're the one in the wrong and needs to learn more about their own community and its history. They're supporting pseudo-woke bs. You did not fuck up. You are not the asshole.

We live in a society. Social customs exist so that people are used to interacting with each other in a relatively consistent way. Everyone acts differently, sure, but when a social customs is violated, it's extremely noticable. They don't always have practical use or make sense.

Knocking before entering is a social custom that people follow even though they intend on opening the door without a response.

Hang on a second here. Having sex? Not a big deal. Having sex in the house with other family around?

Kind of fucked up. This is a TIFU. Even the OP realizes they fucked up. If you can't see that, I kind of question your common sense. I can't imagine being horny in my grandparents' house and willing to act on the horny right then and there.

BIG WHEELS KEEP ON TURNIN’

A big old wooden plank rigged to fall on the opener

Damn guess it’s the LGTQ now

It’s not cause I like her, it’s cause I’m genuinely concerned. But it doesn’t matter what I say anymore, I can’t dictate who she can or can’t be with no matter what.