And here you are with no video and some busted up fingers.

Ofc it worked out, as I told you he probably don't give a shit if you're great at it or not. He does seem to like you tho

At least if they break up, it's a very funny story. Feels like a high tech Curb Your Enthusiasm scenario

Do that and tell us how he enjoyed bouldering with you

Yea for sure!

I laughed way too hard at this

Congrats! Be sure to just enjoy and have fun together (:

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Them not telling you about the brother is on them. How were you supposed to know some random kid was her dead brother?

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Tell her you were just doing Gods work.

You don't think things through very well do you?

Right, I was like wtf lol op says it so casually

NTA because you didn’t know, so it was unintentional. However, the image must have been very obviously old, so you could have inferred that it held some sort of personal/special meaning to the mom.

What you did was funny, and exactly what I would have done! It was just unfortunate. I wouldn't worry about it, fix it and explain again. Call yourself a twat and if you had known you obviously wouldn't have done it. Doesnt mean you are a twat, but making it personal highlights your awareness of what happened.

But don't beat yourself up about it, shit happens! Step up and you'll feel better for it.

Don't let this bring you down. Just be like "Instead of filming a climb, how about you join me sometime?". Works wonders. Fun fact: most new climbers find any boulder/route you climb impressive.

You couldn’t have known but this is fuckin hilariously fucked up bahahahhaha

Even if they haven't been together long enough for her to tell him about It, she doesn't have the right to be mad at him. She can be sad but not mad, how would he know?

I feel so guilty for laughing so hard at this 🤣

At least you didn’t send it to the rest of the family, especially the mom lol

Don't kink* shame, particularly yourself.

NTA- if you’re going to be that sensitive about something, don’t involve somebody else without warning them. Dude was set up to be an asshole.