That’s funny because I weigh 140 pounds exactly lol.

From experience using my friends breathalyzer, my BAC when I was drinking would reach .08 after about 2-3 drinks in about a 2 or three hour period.

And I’m fairly certain about that because I avoided a DUI with a .07 after 2 drinks in 2 hours. I was drinking almost daily and felt fine.

You get real comfortable. Hell, quite a few of us went around grabbing each other's nuts. Submariners usually get their first male to male kiss in a game of chicken. You really stop thinking of "gay" as "liking things up your butt" to "yep, I'm not attracted to men"....which is how it should be anyway tbh

Didn't say I did drink that much every time I drink. Just that I'm able to. I very rarely have more than a glass when I drink. I only ever drink like that when the occasion calls for it (ren faire).

Okay well in my eyes that’s totally cheating, but whatever. If this is your first time being unfaithful to this girlfriend and you’ve been with her for longer than like 4 weeks, then she also has chlamydia and gave it to you, because you don’t start to feel the symptoms for at least a week. Also crazy to me how in the TL;DR you didn’t mention cheating on your girlfriend. Even if you don’t consider it cheating, I’d bet she would.

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When there's one about to enter the head, sure. Just dropping by? No

Yall are getting high points?

Well your binge drinking would be responsible for your tolerance then.

Binge drinking is a sign of alcoholism. Not all alcoholics drink daily. Binging and going on runs are also signs of alcoholism.

Seek help.

I mean you could always claim you were in shock about the finger thing and that it was over very quickly and you feel really violated and didn't know what to do.

Pretty much. Poor people never came to my boat for tours, but I can think of many celebrities

I never experienced DARE so I don’t know what DARE cops say. I’m going to guess not considering I grow and use cannabis.

My experience with alcohol is that many people think they know their limit but actually don’t. Usually they base their limit on their drink of choice at their watering hole of choice. That may be at home or at a bar. With beer it is fairly easy to gauge your limit but with mixed drinks it absolutely is more difficult due to the nature of different bartenders pouring heavy or light depending on mood and training. Some bar tenders pour heavy thinking that a stiff drink will get them a bigger tip whereas others pour light assuming that the patrons will order more drinks.

Not to mention the fact that alcohol tolerance is circumstantial. One person may not show any signs of intoxication with a BAC of .08 and another person might appear heavily intoxicated at .08.

If OP had been drugged they likely would have felt extremely groggy and confused when they woke up. Waking up without a hangover is not a sign of being roofied.

They do. It starts with a 1MC announcement to the entire boat that goes something along the lines of "rig ship for visitors".

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could be an interaction with some meds ur currently on as well

I'm really curious what OPs take is on her lack of concern for him

> I’m on an all male crew so there’s not a whole lot of modesty between the crew.

I'm sorry, but this logic just doesn't check out. You mean you want a bunch of other dudes just seeing your junk? I didn't even change in front of other dudes in school. Fuck that business.

The right to be mad at who exactly?

One thing to keep in mind from his comment, girl in question acted exactly like yours. Even though it "worked out" (she believed him) she still cheated on him years later. The fact that your girlfriend is acting the same suggests she will do this too. Please keep it in mind.

You definitely had chlamydia before going to the parlor. It doesn’t happen in a matter of hours like that

Jesus, us guys need to get better at reading red flags. Her friend drugs you to try and break you up and she is trying to decide if she should do it or not.

Even when she realized that you were drugged and something was not right, she sticks to her guns "maybe we should break up"... Right after her criminal friend fkn drugged you. It was completely her fault but you were made to suffer.

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Seems like such a common issue with women, where they think very positively of themselves morally and this allows them to act in the most heinous ways towards people who are close to them. As guys we probably need some situations like this to identify if we have a good partner. It's not enough to look at their positive aspects, we have to see them in a situation where they feel justified in being the worst version of themselves.

Nah according to this guy people take it to feel warm and sleepy.

You got chlamydia from a handjob? Wtf

OP, I think you need to share this entire thread with your girlfriend so she can better understand what happened to you.

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