Try harder dumbass, or regret.

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Yeah kinda of post puke post and I only have had 4 and a half hours of sleep or so

Fair point. Just a small embarrassing thing.

Pretty sure you mean "curricular," not "circular."

Sorry, mate. I was definitely still high when I wrote this. lol

Nah, she's tried it but she doesn't really like being high. I'm a medical marijuana patient and sometimes if she has a backache or something I'll give her some of my gummies. She always asks for the lower dose ones because she says she doesn't like feeling out of it.

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Bro, I married a girl from the states and used to drive 16 hours to see her for a weekend before she moved to in with me, where there’s a will there’s a way.

Being attracted isnt the same as staring during work hours. I am attracted to a variety of people I dont go out of my way to gawk at them.

He is still attracted to his coworker that politely declined but kept things peaceful. Him being attracted to her is totally fine, but continuously pinning her is not healthy for his mental health.

Yikes... I'll be looking out for an update on this one. OP I hope you go no contact with your parents if you can....or sue the hell out of them if you can find the legal footing. This is nuts.

I learned my lesson on a much smaller amount of money but, don't loan money to people, especially people with leverage over you (family is in this category.)

Kudos for having the courage to take a shot in the face of possible dissapointment.

Thats really brave and now you can go on and know that you havent missed something and you dont have one that got away.

Good on you for getting your own account and taking control! As if this needs saying, do not ever give either parent access to your new account.

It sounds like your parents really dropped the ball on teaching you to manage money, and I'm sorry for that. Most adults maintain both a checking and a savings account, so that the bulk of their money is in savings and therefore safer. If you haven't already, I'd recommend getting a low-limit credit card and practicing making small purchases and immediately paying them off. That way, when you're ready to make a large purchase, you'll have a credit score.

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An hour away is nothing, man. Keep speaking with her, and take the train to see her as often as you can.

Talk to her and keep in touch. I've learned way too late about the chances I missed. Don't repeat my mistakes.

I can’t really go into details but when I say I really can’t, I can’t. Sorry for being kind of broad.

I wasn't taught about money growing up. Both my parents worked paycheque to paycheque. My dad spends his money carelessly feeding addictions, while my mom has spent all her money raising me as a 'single' mother.

I understand how hard the hit must feel, and excuse me if I sound overly-optimistic, but I dont think this means you wont be able to see each other again.

I strongly believe you should talk with her about this. I know that you might not end up on the same page, and it may be a bit sudden, but everything has been and it's better to try than to let go of the chances.

Even if it's not an easy thing, you can stay in contact, maybe even have a long-distance relationship (it's not ideal, but a possibility). Also, given time and if things go well, one (or both) of you could move to be together.

Whatever the outcome, I advice you to share your feelings with her. I think that you'll regret closing that door beforehand more than taking your chances and finding out what happens next.

It's high school, my man. Trust me, you will have plenty of time to reconnect with her again or maybe someone else who is even better. I didn't even really have my first real relationship until I was already 18-19. Had other girlfriends after that, but didn't meet my future wife until I was 28.

Do yourself a favor and take this for the win it is. You learned, you grew, you became MORE. Are you going to be with the cute German lady? Likely not. That, however, doesn't preclude you from using what you've learned to manage an even better result the next time you try.

I mean an hour away is really not that far, you could easily spend time on the weekends for starters.

An hour isn’t that far apart… why not still see her?