I… what?

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I couldn't figure out wtf NB stands for for the longest time.. I could care less how one chooses to identify as but at the same time can't imagine how many more new terms we will need to get acquainted to at this rate. Call me old school or ignorant but this concept of overly complicated self identity is getting wild.

her and her family

Ooopsie!

I'd rather have broken alive ribs than unbroken dead ones.

I’ve been on Reddit over an hour today, wtf are you talking about, grab the bull by the horns ask her out, travel to see her, make an effort or you will always have a what if in your mind and ain’t no body got time for that! Oh and also keep us updated please, thank you kind sir!

>I talked to her like she wasn’t just a German exchange student, but a person

I lol'd at this. How insightful.

Dawg you need therapy to find out why you stuck around so long.

Clearly you need to focus on yourself bro

A snitch? What the fuck?! What the hell would you be "snitching" about? Aren't you an adult who has to deal with a flirty child? What the fuck is there to snitch about? This just makes you sound like you were enjoying the attention.

You didn’t fuck up. They did.

I would imagine those installer guys do see a lot of shit. They have to be all up in your house sometimes so I would imagine they see everything.

That's a bold claim. He certainly has useful life advice and can be quoted as a psychology professional, even though you may not personally agree with some or many of his perspectives. But to dismiss him by saying he's an idiot shows that you aren't a reasonable person to argue with anyways, therefore, your very own opinion should be taken with a grain of salt by the readers here.

you seem like kind of an asshole

What a confusing load of crap. Too long and incoherent.

Too long, didn't bother to read

Your story is incoherent gibberish.

Yess that's a very good point, but i didn't wanna be a snitch. I know i have nothing to back me up, and it was a stupid, but i thought i could've really handled it myself. I mean a 16 year old right? That's easy i thought, oh boy how hopeful i must've been back then...

While i know that's a very good idea, her mother was "okay" with her crush.... I might've probably forgotten to mention that.

So instead of getting the reality check and help he needs... he'll get training. smh.

He's a clinical psychologist who entered the political sphere. For several years he had perfectly reasonable advice. He then had an extremely adverse reaction to a prescribed medication, and after his recovery, he went off the deep end a little bit and started talking a whole lot outside his realm of expertise.

He's a decent guy, claims of various x-ism's are mostly made up or can only be arrived through very subjective or personal interpretations.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aa9qj1m-sn8&ab_channel=DoseofTruth

Here is a video by him relevant to your issues that can give you a little to chew on. Judge for yourself.

Watching a parade while eating biscuits and gravy, then putting the football game on in the background while we prepare the feast

The only thing that matters out of all of this - SHE DOESN'T KNOW WHERE YOU LIVE NOW. Block her on everything and get some intensive therapy. Congrats on moving away from her!

INFO

I fail to see anything you have specifically done wrong, aside from not immediately telling your professor his daughter makes you uncomfortable as all hell.