An add on to this.

If you can't afford it with your debit card you can't afford it with your credit card.

Don't spend what you can't pay for when the bill comes due.

OP is in Canada, I’m assuming Quebec based on the French comment and their syntax, in the winter. They’re not cycling 100km in -20 weather.

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Yeah, good way to burn some calories too.

Okay so first off, I hate to tell you this, but your current girlfriend is banging Matt Damon and literally everybody knows but you. At least you'll get a catchy song out of it though. As for this German girl, what you need to do is assemble your crew - a sarcastic asshole and maybe some twins - and head for Europe before this German chick gets on a cruise ship and you never see her again. Be careful with pot brownies that may not be put brownies, club vundersexx, eastern Europe, absinthe, accidentally making out with your sister, and tunnels. Other than that, don't worry, this is all gonna work out.

It certainly sucks that she is leaving so soon. Make the last day as special as you can. If you haven’t already kissed her, tomorrow may be your last chance.

I have no idea which woman he is referring to. He broke up with a girl who has codependency issue and BPD, but he screwed up because he gave a second woman money for a flight change?

Also, which woman is the one with the crazy family. I have absolutely no idea what this person is saying. The story has no chronology or character names.

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Lmao that how long it takes me to get to work

It doesn't have to in some ways at least thankfully

I feel you re:MDs, part of my reality is that my dad died five years ago because a doctor "misdiagnosed" a condition which happened to give that doctor a pretext to install an expensive, profitable device in his chest.

There are definitely shitty people who only cause misery. Part of why I'm comfortable with just ignoring them as opposed to pursuing something (both criminal+civil） is the knowledge that even though I could completely blow up their little world there is nothing I or anyone could possibly do to fuck them worse than they fuck themselves. They're miserable now, I could make them marginally more miserable but the cost would be my own happiness. They aren't worth it; on top of that when you make it apparent to a person who loves to say "do you know who I am" that they aren't worth your time or energy pisses them off just a bit more too.

Many people here are trying to put down your feelings and make you feel childish, which is not cool. Chances are that since you are young this will probably be an insignificant part of your life, but it doesn't make it any less painful.

If you really think you can't do anything about it then mourn it as long as you need and move on, since you will most likely meet someone later the will fulfill your expectations even more than her. However, I think that there is a lot that you could do to keep the relationship going, even if it's doomed to stay as a friendship.

Because most of em are neckbeards, don't worry about it I remember my first love and all your feelings are valid!

This is gold

I dunno if I should upvote or not cuz I like the first part but that last little bit makes me sad :( Thanks for sharing :)

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Not for sexy time but my ex and I were having a pillow fight (early 20s love ahh) and I went to turn off the light so we could go to bed. When I came back, he thought he'd get one last pillow smack in and I ended up with the back of his fist to my nose. First and last time I ever got a severe blood nose. Didn't even realise it was bleeding until we turned on the light and it was all over the carpet. He felt truly horrific for it and I couldn't stop laughing because it was an accident. We were having fun. I still laugh at it to this day. He was a great person, we just fell outta love and were friends for ages after until he got a wife that hated all his family and friends. Sad days.

4 years later - divorce.. what’d she say after you got back home and explained? Why not add that?

This just means you get to go to prom twice!

What's your favourite charity/nonprofit?

I drive that to and from work everyday

Maybe, maybe not, only time will tell know and i wish you luck my dude.

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That's kind to say and I appreciate the sentiment but for me at least I don't want to let myself off the hook, I'm naturally a very trusting person and if nothing else I'm walking away from this with better perspective on how to treat people based on how they treat me.

Thank you <3

Sofie passed unfortunately (about six months after she threatened to abandon the dogs in the hallway) but she was happy/waddling/wagging her tail until the end; she had a stroke while she was sleeping. Lizzie is still doing great.

I've blocked her family and am allowing limited contact with her because the reality is we have a shared legal responsibility for the apartment through the next several days.