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gekigarion t1_ixl9ndk wrote

Reply to TIFU by not saying "I love you" back by [deleted]

From your story's perspective, the thing you are the most afraid of is losing him.

If you don't be honest about your feelings, you WILL lose him. Even if his current behavior is just a phase, it is mentally and emotionally taxing to continually put your heart into someone who is not heing real, which is the situation that you're putting him in right now. You'll inevitably lose him.

If you are honest, you may, maybe, lose him. You also maybe won't lose him, which would be awesome. And you'll know if he likes you for who you truly are, even the hidden side you've been keeping from him.

So choice one is a guaranteed loss and choice two at least has some chance of things going well. I know it's a hard choice, but from a practical perspective, if you really, really want him, then please, fight for him like you've never fought before. I'm rooting for you!

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Swinella t1_ixl8zfe wrote

Reply to comment by spetia in TIFU by forgetting to wear underwear by rubyroses123

...and girl code is that you can ask any woman anywhere for a pad/tampon, and we are obligated to share if we have one. It doesn't matter if you're our mortal enemy--she's already bloodied, you don't need the kill shot today.

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St3phiroth t1_ixl57rl wrote

Reply to comment by ConfidentBirthday523 in TIFU by bleaching my hair by ConfidentBirthday523

Oh, I didn't mean to get it professionally colored. You can go to a beauty supply store yourself - somewhere llike Sally's Beauty Supply - and buy the same type of color they would use in a salon. The developer is like $10 for enough to do several color treatments, and then the individual dyes (the color part) are typically around $4-8. If you have shorter hair, those can sometimes do 2 treatments.

The sales people working at my local Sally's have always been super helpful with their advice too. So even if you don't buy stuff, they could possibly point you in the right direction.

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