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unknowngodess t1_ixsiaid wrote

Reply to TIFU by confessing to my mom that I don’t want to live anymore by ViewOk4348

I think that most people have dealt with the same thoughts here and there...

I don't think that you necessarily need a therapist for the occasional intrusive, or disassociative thought. Unless there's other factors that are leading you to muse over such things.

Maybe an apology and some reassure is called for; after blindsiding her with that nugget of information.

Express how thankful you are to have a open minded relationship with her; that allows you to express these feelings. Without all of the bells and whistles being blown out.

I am sure that your mom would rather know; than not know. It is just a surprising admission and it probably shook her up, in the moment. It's a heavy subject to talk about; even if everyone is on the same page.

So don't be too hard on yourself or your Mother. These feelings will come and go through out your life. The time for help is when you don't have it come and go..

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OriginalName483 t1_ixsi703 wrote

Reply to comment by tcarp458 in TIFU by taking out my girlfriends IUD by [deleted]

Then I think you drastically underestimate the intersection of horny, drunk, and people who make unwise decisions.

Case and point, some people think it's perfectly fine to rip things out of people. That's WAY scarier and less defensible than letting someone finger you before you're sure your stitches finished desolving

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4Pawbs t1_ixsglog wrote

Reply to comment by butteredbabyrolls in TIFU by taking out my girlfriends IUD by [deleted]

Not sure how long it took to soften partner can't recall that. But generally it can take a few months.

Just asked my partner he says no it didnt hurt. At first would be uncomfortable but if he readjusted it was fine. He said it was more like a light tickle then anything.

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