Y'all this is low quality bait quit giving OP attention

Hopefully, if she has a life insurance policy he will no longer be the beneficiary.

and guilt mary into not trying to sabotage the relationship herself

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so being a pastor means you can’t possible be a cheating narcissist abuser…… that’s a funny joke 🥴

If anyone wants to be violently sick in their mouth, check OP’s post history. Multiple posts in foot fetish reddits saying he wants to piss on people’s feet. He has no remorse. Disgusting.

No, no, no...that's the other Jeff. We're talking about Jeff R, who is the father of Thomas (who, incidentally, goes by "Tom").

Tom is Jeff R.'s son.

Well if someone cheats on their abusive and narcissistic spouse I would have more sympathy for them than if they cheated on their dying church pastor spouse. Like it or not context does make a difference of degrees.

I mean he took her to this hotel where he's having an affair and while she was waiting for him in the lobby he drove off with the other woman. Idk how else she would have taken that so it's not on you imo. Idk how this dude could think he wasn't about to get caught. Hope his dick falls off.

Yeah. It sure does. I’m so sorry, OP.

She just wanted everyone to know that Thomas is Jeff. Jeff is his real name.

You’re so disgusting! Stop trying to excuse your revolting behaviour by saying piss is natural. You’re foul and you need help

I’m not sure I believe that she’s terminal. He could he telling Mary this to string her along. Telling her that he can’t divorce her to be with Mary because she’s dying, etc etc, knowing full well that he has no plan to leave his wife.

No, this let's the pastor put her affairs in order, cutting out the cheater if she wishes

Mind your own business in the future. Your never know what someone else's lifestyle is and it's none of your business at all. All you've done is make sure that this poor woman has an even more miserable end to her life.

Some members of the feline family do spray to mark their territory. I would be homeless if that's what my cat did on a daily basis LOL

It’s a process. i didn’t have breakthroughs in any areas until I got a therapist that turned situations or memories upside down with her questions. Maybe a session soon will Surprise you. Best of luck.

Upvoted for bojack horseman reference (that I definitely noticed(I don’t know how to do the strike thru))

I have absolutely no idea what is going on here.

That’s cute as hell!! Massive congrats 🎉

No offense but you should just mind your own business. Stay at peace by not getting involved. Could have turned out worse and you don't want to get in the middle of that. Protect yourself

Congratulations! I wish you a lifetime of happiness together!

He’s just mad because this was the last of his mistresses and now she knows about all of them

Lol! Are you minding your own business while telling others to mind their own business? Hypocrit

Was just thinking of that