I second to that, things build up, people don't just give out slaps for free.

The fuck up here is

"TIFU by not being productive (I'm jobless) as my bf came home from his 2 jobs so he can pay rent for us and put bread on the table."

If you think anything less of it, you need the same help as her.

Edit: To people who delete their comments: Truth is indeed a terrible thing, but not compared to falsehood. We must be better.

Listen bud, I've been there and all i can tell u is to be direct and explain the situation, did it work for me? Of course it fucking didn't but that's me, and not you so try it (⁠ ⁠╹⁠▽⁠╹⁠ ⁠)

Look into a womens shelter

Hitting your partner is always wrong 💁‍♀️

Do u have a car? Spark delivery by DDI inc does deliveries for Walmart, autozone, and Home Depot. It’s decent money until u find something better

This likely goes beyond a single incident and you need to step back and evaluate objectively.

Imagine the scenario being the opposite, you come home, frustrated, tired from your 2 shifts to find him on his ass putting no visible effort into resumes/job applications/cleaning stuff. Then he asks you how was the work, as if it's not yet self evident, so now the seemingly harmless question becomes a mocking question. You explode and get violent.

Sadly I don't think you can imagine it. Not until you work two jobs.

It's great that you can think about it, recognize it, and apologize for it. Everyone does it to an extent, whether it's sexism, racism, or something else. Acknowledging it and/or genuinely trying to understand is what makes a difference, so thank you!

I regret my curiosity very much.

Your a piece of shit 😂 fess up haha

You are an absolute arse hole of a douche bag of a piece of crap....

Go to your boss and tell them YOU effed up not the person you are pinning it on!

Jesus Christ are people really this awful that they blame others for THEIR MISTAKES?!

If they just put Rohypnol in your drink, your fiancé is still there to protect you. They were trying to get him out of the way first. Possibly they would have done something to incapacitate you next after they were sure your fiancé was out if the picture for hours.

You and your fiancé should stay away from all of these people.

It's not too late to confess.

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They’re 13.

Why come here your personal health is important if your sick seek medical attention simple

Because she can't move or feel her legs, I think it was more that it was happening and she was trying to tell me and I misinterpreted.

She didn't seem to mind though 😂

(The next time it happened I realised and she happily went in the toilet)

Glad you dodged a bullet and nothing too intense happened. Getting roofied is probably one of the most confusing and fucked up nights of my life and I don't wish it on anyone.

I can see myself doing this lmao

Somehow I always feel a need to prove that I'm actually unable to go to work and not just faking it or being too dramatic. Especially with migraines cause they're not visible. Like, noone would be able to tell that I'm literally dying inside from the pain. It's easier with a fever cause you can prove that and noone will question it.

You did not fuck up. You got out of an abusive relationship before it got bad. Apologize to your parents and see if you can live with them. Otherwise look for friends or other people you can stay with.

Stuff like this happens to me all the time when I'm sleepy. I think I already sent that mail, but only thought I did. Well tbf most of that stuff happened back when I had to get up at 6am regularly. Anything before 10am is early for me. My brain just doesn't work before 8am.

I have college so it’s not possible rn

That sounds almost as bad as taking wet food out of the sink.

Oh I did