There’s a million places looking for help especially for the holidays. Why not start at Starbucks? Or a local store you like? Whole Foods? Target? Who ISNT hiring right now? I don’t understand how you don’t have a job if you’re able bodied and young. I’d be mad if I were in your boyfriends situation too, but nothing would ever result in violence or abuse. Leave now! But jobs should not be an issue!

Are you on probation? If not, you're unlikely to get fired. And I just gave you an out for it being 3 weeks. Say you just happened to be thinking about the entire situation and it hit you that it was likely your mistake.

Hell, I'd be more likely to promote someone who was able to own up to their mistakes, regardless of the consequences, than I would be to fire them. Especially if they could've stayed in the clear and let someone else take the fall.

Fair point, I was out a few years before the pandemic

Yeah...I do fewl.likw crap as I said.

Wow...ok. I get it. It's not like I intended for it to happen though.

Yeah...I know. But bills to pay....family to take care of. 😒

Arrggghh...but crap. I would get fired now. They wouldn't see it as a mistake now. It's been like three weeks almost and I heard the other person is still looking for a job...that could be me!

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Rice is a myth, it makes it worse. Galaxy Buds Pro are waterproof for a short time.

"watch the water spin around" enjoy the toilet particles all over your face

Partner is a generic term for gf/bf/significant other. You’re mistaking it for a spouse. And u don’t need to be married to not suffer abuse. Nobody should be hitting their relationship partner, let alone anyone else. Abuse is always wrong.

A bf is not a partner, not yet. Plus she did not play the team game. She's young, she'll learn how to, someday. Or not, either way....

"I missed the part where that's my problem." ~Bully Maguire

Honestly. And in the movie it’s everyone fighting trying to figure out which one did it. Netflix would have a field day. I agree. I think there was a plan for SA, and I think it was premeditated. The Airbnb owner was also friends with all of them.

🤣😂

I've done similar things, but glad to hear it didn't dampen yourself care day but instead added to it.

Just tell her what you told the internet. Go after it cause you will miss every shot you don't take. Whats the worst that can happen they say no? So what life is full of no?! Gotta take a chance that it will be a yes sometimes.

If shes hinting you should be picking it up. Nothing from highschool lasts. So no worries even if things go sideways you wont know her in 10 years anyway.

Have fun be young enjoy life and take all your risks and make all your mistakes before you hit 18 kiddo cause its all struggle from there.

Oh and Dont be a fool wrap your tool.

Not sure if should I upvote or downvote, you're right, but wrong at the same time.

> The only people who were vocal about it was the couple,

There's your culprits.

It was her bf when this occurred, is her ex because of it?

Damn sounds like the start of a great horror movie... (but not for you)... The guy who says they might have been after you is prob right. Scary.

This is what I think. I will never see these people again, we made a pact. I wish we had proof so we could file charges and make sure they don’t do it to anyone else.

I agree. I’ve been roofied a few times. The hangover is the worst feeling in the world too

I agree, but point me to where they were partners in the first place

Look man, I don't know how long ago this happened, but if it was fairly recently you need to go come clean. If you feel like it's already been too long, you could always tell your boss something like "I was thinking about it and I remembered that I mistakenly forgot to switch to my PIN for a while."

You could be seriously destroying her life by making her lose her job for something she didn't do.

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Gotta have boring ones to round out the interesting ones.