You know, there’s no requirement to remain friends after a break up. And if you can’t actually handle being only friendly to each other, then you’re in denial about the situation.

>He got so mad he started getting abusive.

I'm curious how bad it actually was. Did he scream and yell or did he start calling her names or did he start breaking things... or hitting her?

Screaming and yelling isn't necessarily abusive. Calling her names? Well, it's bad but depends how far. Physical, even breaking things, is abuse, 100%.

I can fully understand someone getting very angry about their partner sitting around all day and not helping out while they're stressing about trying to feed and house you both while working 2 jobs. Can't say I'm on OP's side necessarily. Sounds like she should be trying harder to get a job.

You've made the mistakes we're conditioned to make with lack of experience, learn and move forward. You make mistakes and you fail, and sometimes you get heartbroken, it is what it is.

You're not the first and you're not going to be the last this happens to.

With your emotions and feelings in mind, (in the nicest way possible) stop being a fucking loser and stop crying about it. Feel the hurt, that's fine, but attempting suicide over this is nonsense, you will learn to see this.

Use whatever emotion you feel and turn it into something productive, hit the gym, work on a business, find new skills to learn, look inward and find where you're lacking and fix it NOW or you are doomed to fail forever.

He got his ex in grade 6

One concept that changed everything was understanding how low blood sugar plays a significant role in how weed affected me. Make sure you got your sugars building, be sure to eat something before your tokes, fruit will always be amazing, candy is nice as well, and stay hydrated! My highs have been much more mellow since I’ve been more mindful of my sugars.

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Why the fuck does this have up votes? Good god what an awful thing to say

If it's unclear where you two stand and if you still have feelings for him then you two are not "just friends."

I don't understand why he's your friend right now anyway. Don't you have enough friends that you can cross your EX off the list. It's not worth the stress. Make new friends.

Plus, you're probably making it a lot easier for him after your break up because you're still in his life and you're still sticking around. He doesn't have to choose between the two of you because you're both in his life. You have to cut him off so that real decisions can be made and you can both move on. How are you going to get over him if he's still in your life?

What's that rule for truly getting over someone? They have to be completely out of your life for twice as long as your relationship was.

What the fuck is everyone smoking? Both op and comments talking about hallucinations and shit wtf? I've been smoking my whole life, I've ripped dabs way too hard, I've eaten way too many edibles, and smoked way too strong of hash, and never had hallucinations??? Are yall sure you're just smoking weed? Maybe I'm smoking the wrong thing?

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I had a drunk text moment in August with my crush of 8 years, not much came if it unfortunately, I kinda was too drunk to stand lmao.

At Coachella, I ate a brownie made by an idiot, which I guess makes me an idiot too. I made it to the end of the parking lot before the bullet train to hell showed up. I just laid in the grass and watched my world disappear for many lifetimes. I was a worm trying to evolve into something better, but this music festival decided to take place on top of my home. I was terrified of being stepped on. After an hour in human time, I snapped out of it and I could at least move again. Turns out the idiot who made the brownies added 10x a typical dose, something like 50 mg of thc per brownie. It took forever to get back to normal, like over a day. I went 5 years after that before I touched weed again.

what's a nappy?

Hence why ex's are supposed to remain ex's.

Well he also wanted me to come. We are remaining friends, the problem was that I didn’t know he had a new girlfriend and I didn’t know his mom would act that way.

Was it worth it?

Ex's are supposed to remain ex's for a reason. Why would you go over to his house, especially at his mom's request when you know he's interested in someone else?

Go to a homeless shelter if you have to, if they don't have room they may at least mentionnother places to look. Everywhere is hiring, you can't afford to be picky right now hun, just take something. Work two part time jobs.

I’m in! Just don’t know which brand! I’ll do some research 🧐

"No, dad. I'm LOSING"

I remember those Linaeum tweeters! I was just an early teen when they came out so I couldn't afford them.

This happened to me the first time I smoked with a bong. Didn't smoke frequently at all but I took an absolutely massive hit and then proceeded to die and basically hallucinate on a bean bag chair for a few hours. That sucked.

Now your therapist needs some therapy.

Muscle movements. Much like a bowel movement. Breaks the seal allowing it to drain.