Forget her, or kill your feelings. Simple as

Them breaking contact with you was the best thing that happened to you bro. I've been in a similar situation and I can tell you that you can definitely only go up from here. Killing yourself over some dumb bitch who doesn't know what she wants and a backstabbing bitchboy of a friend would be a greater loss than any one of their lives.

Keep moving forward and know that you're not alone. Many people have gone through this in one way or another and I can tell you that you will get through this.

I do. But endangering someone's life over it is not okay. There's no "justice" in it, only vengeance.

This was a painful read but nevertheless thank you for sharing. I hope you will heal and move on from these heartless people. I sincerely hope you can and I believe you will find the strength to, without these bastards.

Well I'm talking about avoiding these horrible experiences that come from trusting women who are not trustworthy. I think when this woman was so ready to blame you for her friend drugging you, that should have been a sign for you to end the relationship. You can say you disagree but it's a difficult case to make because the relationship ended with her cheating. Like she nearly did when her friend drugged you.

Nah. You apparently dont find loyalty and honesty in enough regard.

get help

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Well, sounds like a whole lot like BPD on her part. Stay strong, choose more wisely next time.

My best mate fucked my girl too. Its real fucked up shit.

OP is also a loser. If you just accept all the BS like that you're simping. Every sane person would've went for a confrontation much earlier and realize they're both batshit crazy. If you gettin played you letting yourself be played. It's that simple. Always choose yourself over others first.

Also all women are crazy, you just gata find crazy you can handle.

If she doesn't like your sense of humor now, she ain't gana like it in 20 years bro. I'm not saying don't get her back or don't put effort in, ya know it's young love and the relationships you have now are far more carefree and have the fewest life consequences, so just enjoy dating while you can, doesn't even have to be with her, point is you should pursue one's that are fun. People don't find forever love the first, second, or third time, some don't ever find it so don't sweat this particular relationship too hard when you've hardly had time to look for the right person. There's plenty of fish in the sea you just gata put yourself out there and take a few risks.

No more fucked up than crawling into your friend's bed and fooling around with his girlfriend while he sleeps, then asking for a cross-country ride home. I mean their behavior actually seems more irrational than his.

You're 16, you'll be fine.

Definitely helpful, thank you!

I'm glad you enjoyed it :)

I'm pretty sure it was just the alcohol + me not knowing my tolerance enough.

Sad thing here is how much of your decisions are wrapped up in what other people think rather than what u want.

They will both just repeat what they've already done. She will cheat on her partner with someone she barely knows and he will betray his friends.

No one deserves that, I hope you're doing better mate

Isn't it strange how there's only ONE commenter pointing out how fucked up it is that OP took two other people on an almost suicide run in his car?

That's... Fucked up. That's more fucked up what either of his "friends" did to him. Cheating is pretty messed up, lying to your best friend is pretty messed up but taking two people hostage and putting them in mortal danger because one cheated on you with the other is SO MUCH WORSE.

How did you manage to have the time and patience to write so much in a single post? Sorry I lost patience after the second paragraph and then I scrolled to realize how long the post is!! Did someone else feel that way?

Jesus. Abuse does things to a person. I am so sorry you had to endure her abuse for as long as you did. But please, remember this: it is not your fault. I promise things will be okay. They may not be right now and it may continue to hurt for a while but it will get better.

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