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ProfetF9 t1_iy2qq12 wrote

Reply to TIFU by introducing my best friend to my girlfriend by myir4

idk man, hope you are ok but this is way to exagerated from start to buttom. I know mental health is nothing to be joked about but you're not the first to be cheated on or the last.

People are shit and you're 20, i'm praying you can find your peace and live a happy life. Be strong.

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Aussieviking79 t1_iy2qny7 wrote

Reply to TIFU by introducing my best friend to my girlfriend by myir4

Sometimes people suck … even those that are close to you. Your still extremely young , and have many more years for further relationship/s. Main thing is don’t be hard on yourself , it’s best you find out she and your best friend don’t deserve you now rather than years later. It’s hard to forget , and the hurt is rough … but it will make you a stronger person 🙏🏻

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Sayan8876 t1_iy2q0tz wrote

Reply to TIFU by introducing my best friend to my girlfriend by myir4

I would say, you dodged a bullet, he wasn't a friend and she wasn't meant to be your girlfriend either.

P.s any relationship which starts like that doesn't last 😂

I wish you op the best of luck and in the meanwhile surround yourself with good company and workout to express all the emotions

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Gods-Nutbucket t1_iy2pesb wrote

Reply to TIFU by introducing my best friend to my girlfriend by myir4

I’m sorry, this is gonna sound horrible, but if I were you I would have made sure I called a social worker on her and reported her for being mentally unfit to care for herself (even if she is mentally there, she’ll have to deal with it). I would then proceed to tell his parents and family how he is a good for nothing person that will betray them at the drop of a hat and take that evidence with me, turning them against him. I’d make sure life was a living nightmare of inconveniences. It wouldn’t be forever. Just long enough. Something similar happened to me, but yours takes the cake.

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throwaway_nowgoaway t1_iy2oy4u wrote

Reply to TIFU by having anal with a furry by Responsible-Ad4081

Yo- so this was a rollercoaster but I think there are actually a LOT of lessons you can learn from this experience. Easier said than done but I think setting boundaries and not people pleasing is one of them. People can see if you have confidence and will treat you accordingly. The rest of your social interactions in HS can be good practice for not giving AF. Thankfully you won’t have to see these people btw.

I think you are very mature for knowing what your kink is and accepting it as a part of you instead of trying to change it. Definitely not my thing but I have my own. Best of luck when it comes to dealing with your mom.

Also, I found cutting out dairy really helped with my acne at your age- something worth looking into maybe.

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monadyne t1_iy2ot0r wrote

Reply to comment by abyssalcrisis in TIFU by introducing my best friend to my girlfriend by myir4

>it is not your fault

Part of it IS his fault! He did not stand up for himself. He did not demand that his girlfriend behave honorably to him. He acquiesced in taking the friend along to J's home, even though the friend had already betrayed his trust.

Hopefully, he will learn the lesson from this experience, that a man must be strong and must protect his feelings against toxic friends and lovers. When he realized his girlfriend was unworthy, painful as it would have been, he should have rid himself from her forever! Same with his so-called friend. None of us should allow ourselves to be so weak that we would tolerate such disrespect.

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