Shit I do know what it means but haven't read the whole post, i just read the TLDR 💀

I forgot that it's a British word 🤣

They don't normally - she wears newborn diapers with a little cut in the back for her tail because of her continence troubles, so she can run around where she likes without worrying about mess ☺️

Good thing you used that throwaway account. No way anyone can link you to the thousands...nay...millions of other 25 year old cameramen working on reality cooking shows, where a contestant had a breakdown sometime in the last few weeks.

If he wanted to have crashed, he would have, what he put in the text is what/how he was feeling at the time, it is normal to feel in extreme ways when you are this sad and you feel that the world is going down, the important thing is that he don't do thar(sorry for my english, i'm good in text comprensión but no writing)

You mean he's gonna become a real Chad?

>females

That explains a lot lol

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"an incompatibility"??? Is that what you call abusive, manipulative and cheating?

Absolutely

My ex gf was the same type of girl. We got together at the end of her relationship(he was abusive), then she cheated on me with a friend of 10 years. They were together then for like a year. Havent talked to the friend or her since. Time will work things out, i am now in a happy 8 years old relationship. Keep your head up

No fuck up on your end except trusting them, which is normal and hard to distinguish between horrible and nice people. Stay in therapy and gl on future meeting good peep :p

Continue to get better. She's pure trouble. She only cares about herself. I'm sorry that you went through that.

Thanks. Straight forward common-sense comments like this one often restore my faith in humanity after going through so much crap that people write.

Glad you’re doing ok and with us. It may seem really distant and hard but it is for the best that you guys broke off. Imagine this after having kids in your life. The worst is behind you, take it as a learning and don’t carry that baggage. Start afresh when you are ready and look back in a few years like nothing happened. Good luck man!!

I've been editing reality TV for 15 years, and if it's any consolation I've seen this happen a few times. It sucks, but shouldn't be the end of the world. You mentioned a sound guy, so audio was running, right? A good editor will hopefully be able to salvage the best sound bites from that, covered with broll, and occasionally cutting to the take you did film. Not 100% as effective, but the episode will be fine.

Are you from the balkans or eastern Europe? We handle those things like that. Anyway I´m against violence but damn I would definetly do the same.

It makes sense even tho its missing some punctuation.

Whatever made up laws of friendship, ethics etc. you may think there exist, the ONLY valid laws are those of science and evolution finds a way to always fuck-up young male-female triangles. Always keep that in mind xD

You sleeping in bed with your gf and another boy and you not being the guy in the middle is already a big red flag btw.

It's not your fault though. Something like this is not worth to waste your life on.

Op what you did with going to therapy is correct other than that damn everything else was pathetic , you knew from the very first moment of them holding hands its gone south and yet you stayed with them both. Start getting better and f#ck these bitches you will soon get better and laugh at them.

>That day my world shattered

>We already planned a billiard night the next day and I didn't want to cancel on short notice

>We met again the day after because we had already bought tickets for the spa

Dude, wtf. Your world was shattered, but you kept meeting up with him repeatedly after?

>He mistook that as an invitation and told us he'd be happy to accompany us

Yeah, he didn't mistake anything. The best reply was "No, that's alright. We want some alone time :)". If your friend can't accept that you and your girlfriend need time alone, you need to seriously reconsider that friendship.

>J told me she was too tired to search for bed sheets and as her dad wouldn't allow someone to sleep on their couch, we should just sleep in one bed.

And that sounded reasonable to you? That you were doing it because her dad would prefer two men sleeping in her bed, one of which was nearly a stranger who was making unwanted physical contact towards her, to someone sleeping on the couch? And that she felt this was the right thing to do? And that in that sleeping arrangement she was sleeping in the middle between you guys?

>I did what everyone in that situation would do and kindly told him to fuck the hell off.

That is absolutely not what everyone in that situation would do.

>We decided to still take my best friend for the trip to one of the tourist attractions

Dude WHAT. Your friend has physical sexual contact with your girl, in your presence, you have a mental breakdown over it and argue through the night, and the next day you still bring him along? I'm struggling to imagine anyone doing that, honestly. The only plausible explanation I have is that you were paying for things and that's why they needed you there. It definitely sounds like you're the driver for your friend and his girl, not the other way around.

The next part was pretty damn dark, but I think you really have to understand that you were being absolutely blind to all the warning signs.

Stay in therapy, and don't say things "Don't trust anyone", because that wasn't the fuckup. The fuckup was burying your head in the sand and ignoring every red flag along the road until you fell off the damn cliff.

If it took him over two hours to come out he slept with her. And you should've decked them BOTH. I'll be goddamned if that shit were to ever happen to me I refuse to be the good or better person. They both ending up in the hospital. I refuse to be disrespected like that bc that is the fucking moment I'd be ready to go to prison.

I don't smoke anymore because it most definitely made me hallucinate. Gave me almost dream like scenarios in my real world. Shits scary, it's made me throw up because it made me so sick to think about.

An example is one time I had like 2-3 shots and a mikes, I am not exactly a lightweight so I was barely feeling anything by this point so I figured it'd be safe to smoke. 2 TINY puffs of a blunt and I was good. I sat down on the couch and the bullet train from hell came. I closed my eyes and was having a dream of a ferris wheel I was on in the sunset going constantly around. My pov was ~10 feet away from my seat going around with the ferris wheel. I saw this when I closed my eyes, it went away when I opened them. Everytime I blinked it played for what felt like 5 second. Then it started playing on the TV infront of me and in the reflection of the windows. I was hearing my girlfriend talk to me while she was in the bathroom literally on the opposite side of the house. It just kept getting weirder for about an hour. I eventually threw up, like a lot and went to sleep and still woke up high

This is why i don't have a GF can't betray me if you don't exist😎

Hol' Up

After the movie night, it's certainly his fault. You can say what you want but any self respecting person would've ended it then and there.