I guess it's different in such a small shooting environment, but isn't that why on larger sets they call out commands like "Sound", "rolling", "action"? To make sure everything is working.

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All I see are red flags OP. Even if you guys are remaining "friends", he's clearly shown that only does he not respect you, and relationships, but he also does not respect his new girlfriend. Is that really someone you want to friends with? Let alone in a relationship with? He's already proved you can't trust him once, don't let him make it a third time. Take it from someone who knows, keep your distance and work on yourself, this will only end badly in the long run with your feelings and most likely his current girlfriends hurt as well.

I suppose it's more about the main account not being linked...

Aaah the light hearted f'up that makes u and everyone you tell laugh. Deffo a successful pickmeUp with a brilliant outward effect :-) shame ur burgwr had 2 get squished in the peocess tho 🤭

You're still very young, and just learned the golden rule of relationships: if they'll cheat with you, they'll cheat on you. Even if her ex was abusive, she was still dating him when she started hitting on you. She sounds like a "relationship jumper" and likely wanted to have a guy waiting in the wings before officially ending things with that guy. That just happened to be you. It's likely that she wanted to end things with you, too, for a while, but didn't want to do so until she had someone else to fall back on. P gave her the perfect excuse for that. They may look happy now, but believe me when I say that she'll do the same thing to him, too. She sounds very emotionally immature and will likely repeat the same pattern over and over again until she goes to therapy to sort through her attachment issues.

When she eventually cheats on P, because she will, he'll probably reach out to you. He'll tell you that you were right about her and cry over how badly she burned him. He'll probably try to "repair" his friendship with you by blaming her for manipulating him and tearing you two apart. Don't fall for it. Any friend willing to betray you the way he did is not a good friend to have in your life. They both took advantage of you here. Grieve the friendship and don't let him back in. Don't let her try to come back in your life either when this relationship inevitably falls apart. Take this as a lesson and grow from it.

I'm sorry, KILLING two people over infidelity? What kind of medieval shit is that?

People who go back to their ex's this easily blow my mind, you obviously want to get back with him. Who invites their ex to thanks giving no his girl at the time, dude's tired of fucking his current gf so he invited you to have a shot lol. I mean you can wait till he takes you back but he's gonna be fucking someone on the side like he has been all this time doesn't sound like he gives a shit about you

Well killing them both probably wouldn't have been that bad but he was also endangering other people on the road.

Wtf did I just read

Man.. I almost cried if I wasn't one the buss..

I'm probably like OP I would have probably done the same if I was in his shoes

"still being with her after she did that.." But not the suicide part..

ThanQ 4 telling us ur situation...

ThanQ ✨️

FIGT!

It’s just sounds like you’re trying to explain away or make excuses for the behavior. The behavior is always wrong and a lack of self control doesn’t make u Batman, it makes u a bad person.

Yeah story could use a couple trigger warnings as well. Went from 0-100 real fast.

> didn't feel safe with her boyfriend back then

Don't need to read any more. Story as old as the hills. She leaves "that guy" for you. And then you for someone else, always playing out the same narrative...

females making men mentally sick, huh I wonder how many times that have happened (way too many times)

While I agree that this is the wrong approach, people don't generally self harm as a way to get back at anyone... They do it as a way out of this whole ride.

I don't want to sound insensitive, since this is a possibly very f'd up situation, but OP is giving off some really strong incel vibes

> He mistook that as an invitation and told us he'd be happy to accompany us on our drive back to her place if we would take him on a tour and show him around the beautiful landscape.

Bro he was 100% conscious of what he was doing. No real friend would do the third wheel like that. He was hitting on your girl on moment 1 and you got played like a flute. You also never stood up except when you tried to kill everyone in a car accident?

Thank god you are now getting mental help. Learn to take care of yourself. Learn to stand up for yourself. Learn that no friends is always better than friends who manipulate you.

Also about that "they are now happily together"

1. you shouldn't care. Move on. You will find better friends and a better girlfriend if you learn to value yoursef

2. they won't be happy. She has clearly big mental issues and she's doing nothing to solve them. He sounds like a psychopath, he watched you jump off a building doing nothing? Just to get a girl? He can't make genuine bonds with people, he lacks the empathy for that. Keep him away from your life no matter what, it can only end badly.

Only thing holding on shoulda been OP's nuts when his friend invited him self to the SPA trip and slept next to his girl

Creative writing 101

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I gotta say, having been in pretty much the same situation, the worst thing was them keeping contact. It made me jealous, miserable, pathetic, all the bad things. I don't know how he even has friends after the shit he ended up saying to me lol.

"oh boy golly, cheating and abuse sure is a bad way to find out about an incompatibility"

sounds like cheater, abuser, and manipulater talk lmao

She is a manipulating whore. That guy is not your friend. You are a fucking moron for a bunch of things like saying "yeah, why don't you sleep in the middle" but most of all - puting your life on the line for a dumb bitch and an asshole.

He didn't just feel that way, he was driving at reckless speeds and even had some close calls. He also wanted to take two other people to the grave with himself.

No way in hell you convince me this is appropriate behavior in this situation. He wanted to crash, he was just to much of a coward to actually drive head first into a tree