Yeah, she is constantly trying to get me to “wait for him” and thinks I need to let him learn. She says he will “stop cheating after he learns a bit” but idk if he deserves my time after cheating on me

It sounds like his mother and her friends act/talk that way all the time! Don't you find it strange that they all had opinions about your relationship? Rest assured, they talked about you after you left. It's best to move on before their gossiping causes you harm.

No prison when he kills someone driving drunk.

Do you think your fiance's best friend was in on it? Glad you realized something was up before drinking it!!!

I mean, obviously OPs situation may be different, but I also am looking for a job right now and I have standards for myself so I don't have one yet. Yeah, I could take a nickel an hour to get verbally abused at Starbucks, but no fucking way unless I have no choice. Not when I was making 18.50 for 3 years and still have a decent amount in savings.

"There's plenty of jobs out there" Yeah. All the shitty ones that don't pay enough, that's why they'll always be available.

The first thing you need to do is get help with your drinking problem. yes it is a problem since you drove drunk twice without care for anyone else safety. Stop before you kill someone.

You need to tell your friend you are an idiot and tell her the truth and I am sure that will solve it with her. She deserves someone much better than you.

You should go back to your crazy EX I think you both deserve each other.

Honestly get help before your life really goes down the drain. You are going to kill someone it is only a matter of time.

You’re clearly not illiterate and yet here you are trying to justify hitting your partner because of inner darkness or capability for violence. Abuse is always wrong and it doesn’t matter why u do it. It only matters why to you because you did it because you’re inherently selfish to be putting ur partner thru that mental and physical pain and damage. End of story.

good god - I'm not sure the title fully explains the soap opera buried in this! Whew! I'm exhausted just reading it. But it sounds like a lifetime movie may be in your future.

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> Yesterday was one of the longest days on set.

If this isn't part of the conversation about why this happened, it will happen again. Long days and fatigue lead to fuck-ups, inevitably. Yes, you need to be careful and try to avoid it. But ther person deciding the schedule needs to know that their decision contributed to the problem.

Almost always, mistakes at work are due to a systemic problem as much as the individual making the mistake.

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Being friends with an ex is a bad idea if you haven't had an appropriate "cool down period". Obviously there are exceptions to this, but it makes it really hard to move on when you are still involved in each other's lives.

Words that i will live by

You always need to go more when it's already hurting back there! Sorry :(

I was thinking he actually called some random other number in his contacts and they were like wtf??

I find it concerning that you know anything at all about your therapist's partner. Your therapy relationship and time are supposed to be about you 100%. Any sharing of personal info by the therapist is supposed to serve a therapeutic purpose.

Also it's not entirely appropriate for your therapist to introduce you to her partner in the street, as it creates a high likelihood of HIPAA violation, this probably was a violation if she indicated in any way that you were her client.

I'm explaining why things happen.

Being violent means you're a bad person, but not being capable of violence (being a rabbit, which can not do anything, but get eaten) does not mean you're a good person by default.

Being a good person - which many consider themselves to be - is hard. To be a good person you have to be a monster, but then not act monstrously.

I will take "Things that did not happen" for 500

Still edible. I'd eat it.

>It turns out that Bone was a regular participant in several NSFW forums, including one devoted to pregnant women in swimsuits, who he referred to as “beautiful human submarines.”

Okay obviously he's a creep but "beautiful human submarines" has me cracking up

Reading this definitely did not make me google "jennifer lawrence butthole" and then wind up in a ken bone meme trap

If your therapist is that insecure she shouldn't be helping anyone else with their problems. I think the uncomfort was yours and now the anxiety. I'm sure they forgot about the whole thing by now.

I used to get compliments on my eyes all the time when I was young. Always felt good!

Guess who's never going to make that mistake again?

A few years ago the local online TV station came to interview the boss. He did about 20 minutes of talking, then when he asked if he could review the footage, the cameraman (who looked as if he'd just left school and was on his first shoot) discovered he had forgot to press record.

He nearly got kicked out the office.

Boss re-did it... but it didnt have the same feel second time round.

It happens. Just make sure you learn from it and dont do it again.

Assert dominance, tell your therapist she has a nice ass.

That’s every morning for my raw ass