I haven't yet but I most certainly am going to. I more wanted to email HR to get his work contact info, but wasn't sure if he'd even want to speak to me or have an email from me. I'm worried that he perhaps went along with it all, to not cause a scene or something.

It's stuck in my head and this sounds weird but I wanted to give him some kind of ownership of choice back as he could choose to respond to me if emailed him or through HR, does that even make sense?

He also asked for OPs phone to make the call and didn't seem like he was trying to hide it at all. I'm pretty sure A is fine with being recognized as gay.

Though calling him "the gay guy" isn't ideal, it was descriptive in that context for someone you barely know anything about and he doesn't sound bothered.

I feel sorry for him tbh

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I totally understand why you feel so bad and you sound sincere, but based on what you’ve shared he doesn’t sound upset to me. He easily could’ve just said he isn’t gay if he wasn’t comfortable sharing that. Either way, have you gone to him directly to apologize? He’d be able to identify your sincerity more than an email to HR. You may be beating yourself up over nothing. If not, use it as a learning experience

Perhaps you should be saying this to her, and not Reddit?

Username checks out

Yeh it is, but police not gonna register complain anyway so i let this as fun and tryna forget.

As a record collector, the current swing of new vinyl lovers makes it hard to fight the impulses. Everythings sells out quickly. I will say though, always get the Metallica and Tool records. They're not going to repress like Swift.

This is literally illegal and extremely sick

Maybe add a tw

Uhh stop hanging with his family. I have never understood why family would invite someone's former bf/gf if things are super awkward or recent. (not unless kids are in the picture) smh

Thanks for your support. At least I know never to do something like that again. That’s a mistake I’ve learned from and a wake up call to work on my anger issues

Hey OP, it sounds like life is really tough for you right now. I'm really sorry. I've been there before and, at the risk of oversharing, I hope you might spend a few moments indulging a random stranger's personal details that are being offered to illustrate a point:

Shortly before my 21st birthday, I found out my dad had terminal cancer, I got into a horrible fight with my girlfriend at the time (cops showed up. no charges, arrest, or jail time, but still), and I lost my shit and ended a longtime, close friendship.That was 20+ years ago.

I still remember feeling, at those moments, how much I wanted to disappear. Not necessarily die, but at least disappear. Go where no one knew me. Start over. It took a while to come to terms with that feeling. Life didn't allow for it.

One day after the other, I eventually made peace with my dad's death (I still miss him every day), made amends with my old girlfriend and friend, and, most importantly, made peace with myself.

I don't know if cutting yourself was genuinely an accident or not. My point is that you cannot make the changes you wish you could have made if you are physically hurting yourself. I do, however, get why you want to go back and change everything. As I'm sure you, you cannot change the past. And as hokey as it sounds, the future CAN be changed but that requires you being present to make it happen.

Please take care of yourself.

(Edited to fix my shitty typos.)

He didn’t do well, but he did do good.

He knows that male teens don't complain in police, they enjoy lol.

Imagination? Bro come to India! More than criminals you have to be aware of old mens 😁.

Sure Akshay

That old man committed a crime lol

Exactly what happened to me.

What a strange and twisted imagination. Nasty.

What the fuck did I just read

Legend for finishing

And add a psyllium fiber supplement.

I'm personally glad you biffed this one. I worked in reality tv for years and just couldn't stand working in that environment watching dunder head producers high five each other over someone's emotional distress. Those people were some of the most psychotic freaks I've ever worked with and I love that you didn't get his breakdown on tape. I would always remind myself that the people signed up for it...but the nefarious attitudes of some of the thundercunts behind the scenes was revolting.