Yet you still bit

Lamest bait, more like.

The most lame TIFU I've ever read

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It's incredibly hurtful and invalidating to just call his lived experience a debunked theory that doesn't exist, and clearly he isn't trying to discredit anyone. What is wrong with you. You're unbelievably direspectful to the people you pretend to be trying to protect and are just as horrible as the Transphobes.

Why would you tell someone who's cured to uncure themself. I'll never understand the internet seriously, it seems you need to do some more reading of your own.

Yes I also know people that know much older people than themselves but how does a 16 year old come up with the idea to get pregnant by a 22 year old?

+1. Therapy doesn't work for everyone, but the earlier, the better. Otherwise, trauma compounds in myriad, unpredictable ways.

I'm an agitatedaubergine. So, nope. No way this is possible! :P

That’s not what this comment is saying at all. It’s fine that OP ultimately decided he was not trans. But in doing so, he doesn’t need to lend credence to a debunked theory that is used to discredit trans people on a daily basis.

Many trans people can feel very turned on or have erotic thoughts about themselves being recognized (or just recognizing themselves) as their preferred gender. This does not make their identity a fetish. It does not make their gender dysphoria any less real.

In the end, OP seems to no longer be questioning their gender nor be struggling with gender identity. That’s great. But I do t think it would be hurtful or invalidating to recognize that what he went through was a genuine part of the process of coming to where he is now and not a near miss of a fetish almost leading him into a mistake as he seems to be suggesting in this post.

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It's pretty invalidating telling OP he's not really feeling how he feels and that his identity isn't a thing.

Autogynephilia has been pretty thoroughly discredited as a theory. I'd urge you to reconsider whether you're an autogynephile, OP.

I recommend reading this article by Julia Serano.

I think that most people post on reddit because they want someone to share their burden with.

Corporal punishment was one of the reason my mental illness got bad and my mother did that.

I’m 32 and my psychiatrist and I believe that I had mental issues since I was 5. Is common now that children are mentally ill.

You’ll be surprised I had friends my age and they knew older guys

Right my mother didn’t catch it until I was evaluated at 14 and with the psychiatrist I have now we believe my mental health problems started when I was a little kid. I do remember being sad all the time.

When somebody hits you, it's their fault, not yours. Physical violence is not a reasonable response to use on people you care about.

You are ridiculous. Completely and utterly insane. Leave me the fuck alone now. Reported and blocked.

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Something to be aware of: Just be careful with ODD diagnosis. I don’t know your race but many minorities are diagnosed with ODD when they actually have ADHD. https://neurodivergentinsights.com/adhd-infographics/adhd-odd-and-racial-bias?format=amp

As someone who majored in psych and (not rn but eventually) will get a masters/PhD, there is a lot of gender and racial bias in a diagnosis DEPENDING ON THE DOCTOR so getting second/third opinions is very important.

What the fuck is wrong with you? Sexual molestation and a spanking are two very different things.

You are complete nonsense.

I would recommend that you read the book "what happened to you" by Oprah Winfrey. It addresses a lot of the topics you seem to have questions about in your post. I really think it will help you understand your childs behavior better.