Recent comments in /f/tifu
drdickemdown11 t1_izrbcal wrote
Reply to comment by KcocNoisnetxeGib in TIFU I shared my bonus details with a coworker who's getting significantly less by Known_Figure_5198
Cool story man, so glad you could share it with me.
KcocNoisnetxeGib t1_izra0qk wrote
Reply to comment by drdickemdown11 in TIFU I shared my bonus details with a coworker who's getting significantly less by Known_Figure_5198
I’ve already got my dick sucked and then daytime drunk at the beach with my neighbors since then…move it along, dr
QuartzPigeon t1_izr9ndw wrote
Reply to comment by drdickemdown11 in TIFU I shared my bonus details with a coworker who's getting significantly less by Known_Figure_5198
Ah my bad I didn't check the username and thought that was you replying.
drdickemdown11 t1_izr95ko wrote
Reply to comment by QuartzPigeon in TIFU I shared my bonus details with a coworker who's getting significantly less by Known_Figure_5198
I don't need to talk in all caps
drdickemdown11 t1_izr92tj wrote
Reply to comment by KcocNoisnetxeGib in TIFU I shared my bonus details with a coworker who's getting significantly less by Known_Figure_5198
You do understand that I was responding quartz, slick willie
Mysterious_Nature193 t1_izqds0a wrote
I'm really glad you wrote this because feel the same way( except I'm a (F) and wished I was a (M). I didn't even know this had a name, cool! Thanks for sharing your knowledge.
KcocNoisnetxeGib t1_izpnta0 wrote
Reply to comment by QuartzPigeon in TIFU I shared my bonus details with a coworker who's getting significantly less by Known_Figure_5198
…you too, slick
KcocNoisnetxeGib t1_izpnrdl wrote
Reply to comment by drdickemdown11 in TIFU I shared my bonus details with a coworker who's getting significantly less by Known_Figure_5198
Yeah I’d check the thread again, slick
ZwischenzugZugzwang t1_izpkjmu wrote
Reply to comment by hellspawn3200 in TIFU by mistaking my autogynephilia for gender dysphoria by WonTaPooSee
Careful you're not allowed to suggest people might change their minds about such a thing
RandoCalrissian11 t1_izpgqhi wrote
Reply to comment by zZbobmanZz in TIFU I shared my bonus details with a coworker who's getting significantly less by Known_Figure_5198
It’s amazing how confidently wrong you are. The level of blissfully unaware is quite alarming really.
zZbobmanZz t1_izpg7bs wrote
Reply to comment by RandoCalrissian11 in TIFU I shared my bonus details with a coworker who's getting significantly less by Known_Figure_5198
Lol, enjoy joining the workforce when you eventually do and find out that positions have specific pay rates and ranges.
RandoCalrissian11 t1_izpfkf7 wrote
Reply to comment by zZbobmanZz in TIFU I shared my bonus details with a coworker who's getting significantly less by Known_Figure_5198
Pay is not tied to position. You couldn’t be more wrong.
zZbobmanZz t1_izp3ltw wrote
Reply to comment by RandoCalrissian11 in TIFU I shared my bonus details with a coworker who's getting significantly less by Known_Figure_5198
You can say it all you want but that doesn't make it true, people can and do do the same job and pay is tied to positions, have you ever held a job in your life?
RandoCalrissian11 t1_izp00jo wrote
Reply to comment by zZbobmanZz in TIFU I shared my bonus details with a coworker who's getting significantly less by Known_Figure_5198
Nobody does the same job, and pay isn’t tied to a position, it’s tied to the companies need.
zZbobmanZz t1_izoqmox wrote
Reply to comment by RandoCalrissian11 in TIFU I shared my bonus details with a coworker who's getting significantly less by Known_Figure_5198
If people aren't getting paid the same for the same job then yes it is inequality by definition
InevitableStill9391 t1_izoqd7d wrote
Reply to comment by CouldntThinkOfClever in TIFU by mistaking my autogynephilia for gender dysphoria by WonTaPooSee
Well yes. If you believe both transgender people and people with autogynephila exist at the same time, then a trans woman who masturbates to pictures of themselves is just a woman masturbating to pictures of themselves and likely just an odd thing people do regardless of whether they are trans or not. The trans woman is not being turned on by the fact they're presenting as a woman, they're likely getting the same satisfaction the cis woman is getting from doing it. No cis woman is looking at themselves and thinking "I look so much like a woman today" and getting off over it, they're obviously getting something else out of it. I assumed we were talking about photos, but it could be that they're getting sexual satisfaction by watching themselves masturbate in the mirror, which may just add some extra sensory gratification to the act for them, which is far more likely and has nothing to do with sex or gender. Someone with autogynephila doing this is being sexually stimulated directly from the fact they are dressed as the opposite gender/imagining themselves as the opposite gender.
But none of this thoroughly debunks autogynephila.
Thanks for the convo anyway, have a good day!
CouldntThinkOfClever t1_izok4ui wrote
Reply to comment by InevitableStill9391 in TIFU by mistaking my autogynephilia for gender dysphoria by WonTaPooSee
Cis women who masturbate to their own image is identical to trans women who masturbate to mental images of their own self as a woman
QuartzPigeon t1_izohk8u wrote
Reply to comment by drdickemdown11 in TIFU I shared my bonus details with a coworker who's getting significantly less by Known_Figure_5198
Because from your all caps comment it's clear you have no deeper perspective on it, just "nunya business".
drdickemdown11 t1_izoh489 wrote
Reply to comment by QuartzPigeon in TIFU I shared my bonus details with a coworker who's getting significantly less by Known_Figure_5198
You literally said the other individual who thought it was a bad idea, gave you a deeper perspective on this..thus... but you're back to calling people boot lickers? I guess perspective is skin deep for you.
InevitableStill9391 t1_izo7pwc wrote
Reply to comment by CouldntThinkOfClever in TIFU by mistaking my autogynephilia for gender dysphoria by WonTaPooSee
>AGP has been used as an explanation of gender dysphoria. That's what it is at its core. AGP in original theory and how it's been used has been used as an attempt to debunk someone's "transness".
I understand that autogynephilia has been used to discredit the validity of "transness" and I think that's nonsense. I believe both exist and are both as valid as each other. But that doesn't discredit the reality of autogynephilia. Just because a group of people feel invalidated by someone else's identity, it doesn't debunk the reality of their identity, does it?
>If AGP were actually a debunking of transness, then I guess many cis women are actually trans men.
And I don't understand how cis women who masturbate to pictures of themselves relates to this at all. If the woman were dressing up as men, taking photos and masturbating to the images of themselves dressed as male then I see how you would include it, but otherwise I don't see the correlation?
CouldntThinkOfClever t1_izo5xok wrote
Reply to comment by InevitableStill9391 in TIFU by mistaking my autogynephilia for gender dysphoria by WonTaPooSee
AGP has been used as an explanation of gender dysphoria. That's what it is at its core. AGP in original theory and how it's been used has been used as an attempt to debunk someone's "transness". If AGP were actually a debunking of transness, then I guess many cis women are actually trans men.
InevitableStill9391 t1_izo48m1 wrote
Reply to comment by CouldntThinkOfClever in TIFU by mistaking my autogynephilia for gender dysphoria by WonTaPooSee
What? OK, I'm completely lost. So because there are cis women who masturbate to pictures of themselves, this debunks the belief that autogynephilia exists? This is a confusing af concept your posing to me as is, but if women are masturbating to pictures of themselves, they're not being sexually aroused by the idea of themselves as the opposite sex. It's a female masturbating to themselves while being female (which I find extremely odd, but can easily believe happens) so how does this debunk autogynephilia in any way?
CouldntThinkOfClever t1_izo33tl wrote
Reply to comment by InevitableStill9391 in TIFU by mistaking my autogynephilia for gender dysphoria by WonTaPooSee
The big reason it was debunked: many cis women masturbate to their own image. AGP is only significant when you ignore what cis women do
QuartzPigeon t1_izo2n4w wrote
Reply to comment by KcocNoisnetxeGib in TIFU I shared my bonus details with a coworker who's getting significantly less by Known_Figure_5198
Oh neat, I've always wondered how boots taste
hellspawn3200 t1_izroeof wrote
Reply to comment by ZwischenzugZugzwang in TIFU by mistaking my autogynephilia for gender dysphoria by WonTaPooSee
Personally I knew since i was 6 I couldn't imagine changing my mind. I'm sure some ppl might but then again they probably weren't trans but some flavour of non binary. It's really something that even if you're sure is still worth talking to a proper therapist about.