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Aminar14 t1_is78gh6 wrote

Fifty Shades of Grey was huge not that long ago. Teachers read it and saw all kinds of kids reading it. Jean Auel's Clan of the Cave Bear was on my Middle School approved book list and in the library. Its sequels are basically straight up porn at points. This is nothing new. You'll be all right. Smut in prose is by far the most accepted Smut category.

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Sayuri_olg OP t1_is74z58 wrote

Damn who hurt you today I’m just I don’t want to hear it from my teacher I’m aware that she knows what sex is but a lot of teachers always have something to say about young people doing something and she’s that kind of person so yeah and what does my age have to do with this!

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a_darling_l OP t1_is6a7w5 wrote

I totally get it I was raised catholic/Lutheran. different parents type beat. I just recently got out of that whole mind set as much as I could I was just hoping I could help her since she's trying. 2nd it was mainly cause of the religious part and also cause of the girl and everything. the place the girl the time everything but I think I should talk to my therapist about it. thank you so much for this comment it made me smile :)

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Individual_Issue_330 t1_is6897j wrote

Teachers are humans too, they’ve read smut in books let’s be real. It’s not the smut that made the book interesting correct? The book is not purely just smut correct? No photos, just words? There’s a story to it and in the end I’m sure your teacher could care less.

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Ainar86 t1_is5oorh wrote

As someone who was raised catholic but is now atheist I can tell you right now that it is impossible to truly live by that rule set and be happy, especially if you don't conform what they consider "normal". What happened might in the end be better for you since being with someone who is taught to hate themselves is not a fun trip.

Now the second thing you wrote is worrying. Sex should never make you feel horrible and icky. Think about why it did, was it because of the place you were in and because it was part of that general low point in your life or maybe you felt pressured into it? It would be ideal if you could talk to someone about it, preferably a sex/mental health professional or at least a good councilor.

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