Recent comments in /f/vermont

BudsKind802 t1_j9k0ll0 wrote

A sincere apology has multiple parts:

  • Expressing regret

  • Accept responsibility

  • Making restitution

  • Requesting forgiveness

  • Genuine promise of change

This guy's non-apology statement was along the lines of a toss off "I'm sorry if people were offended but..."

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WorkingMinimum t1_j9k0jv6 wrote

This article reads like a tumble hate blog post and while the man did make a gaffe, the only real problem socially is that he said what he said without first identifying as an ally and supporter of civil rights. I guarantee if kendi suggested this with the exact same wording, people would cheer for it.

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implante t1_j9k066j wrote

There's a megabus that goes Burlington --> Montpelier --> Boston, but it only runs on Fri and Sun currently: https://us.megabus.com/route-guides/burlington-to-boston-bus

There's also Greyhound, though it's a bit more expensive: https://www.greyhound.com/en-us/bus-stations-in-vermont

There's also the Dartmouth Coach from Lebanon, NH to S Station in Boston. Reasonable price, lots of trips per day to Boston. You still have to drive to get to NH, pay $5/d to park your car, and pay for the bus itself, but it avoids the driving and parking headaches in Boston: https://dartmouthcoach.com/route/upper-valley-to-boston-logan-airport/

An alternative to the Dartmouth Coach is Concord Coach lines, but you have to drive the longer route to Concord, NH: https://concordcoachlines.com/route/northern-nh-to-from-boston-logan-airport/

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mayberrymachiavelli t1_j9k022m wrote

You’re conflating things. Apologizing would have worked at defusing tensions. It would not be a free pass to going back to normal like nothing happened.

That’s the mindset of a “nice guy” — “I was nice, you owe me sex.” “I apologized, give me what I want and stop judging me for my actions.”

Accountability is still a thing and no one owes this man anything, certainly not a position of authority.

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EmeraldMoose12 t1_j9jwhho wrote

Drive to the Dartmouth Coach bus station in Lebanon, NH. Take the bus to South Station. You’ll be right in the city and can take the T, Uber, or walk to wherever you need to go.

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