Recent comments in /f/vermont
[deleted] OP t1_jbluf8p wrote
Reply to comment by CalRipkenForCommish in What is it like for gay couples with kids in Vermont? by [deleted]
well, maybe I'd at least save in terms of homeowners' insurance. last year I paid $4K, this year I'm paying $6K.
quinnbeast t1_jblu2j8 wrote
Just leave him. /s
[deleted] OP t1_jbltxw9 wrote
Reply to comment by ranaparvus in What is it like for gay couples with kids in Vermont? by [deleted]
omg how do you avoid getting shot? are there signs to tell you where the hunting territory is?
zombienutz1 t1_jbltr0f wrote
Pornhub. s/
[deleted] OP t1_jbltlhd wrote
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lipsticktracer t1_jblt6uk wrote
Reply to comment by Amyarchy in Breakfast spots in Chittenden Co but not BTV by MathGeekVT
Problem is that neither 158 nor Family Table even comes close to what Jana's was. I fucking moved to Jeffersonville at one point just because of Jana's - just two years or so before they closed.
ranaparvus t1_jbls4hw wrote
I’m straight but both of my kids are exploring who they are. The communities and schools here are super inclusive. There are some redder areas that will be less friendly - but even in those, if one of you are able to join the volunteer fire/ems service it will go a long way to build respect even with the silly trumpers/don’t tread on me crowd.
Something I was not prepared for here was the hunting. My problem, for sure, but hearing gunfire almost every day when I lived in the sticks was traumatic for me. I’m much happier now in a little town, and ironically my kids love it as they can walk about and have fun with their buddies.
CalRipkenForCommish t1_jbls3o4 wrote
I have gay family members in VT. They love it and it seems VT is very gay friendly, notwithstanding rednecks scattered about, but there’s no state immune to ignorance and hate. What I like most about Vermonters’ attitude toward the LGBT community is that you wouldn’t even know it’s a thing, it’s “normal,” really. I see what you mean about what is happening in Florida, and the movement toward fascist ideologies is definitely troubling. I think you’d feel right at home in VT. On a separate note, covid brought people from NYC and CT to VT in droves, and property values are still nuts. Anything “affordable” (under $300k) is a probably a fixer upper. I know FL real estate is sky high as well, just thought I’d throw that in, lest you think it’s cheaper in VT
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21stCenturyJanes t1_jblr1bh wrote
Winter is scary but what is happening in Florida is scarier. You will find Vermont is the polar opposite of DeSantis' agenda as far as queer acceptance, abortion rights and education. But the cost of living is high and there is a housing crunch pretty much all over the state right now. And on the other hand, you'll love the people and sense of community. Good luck!
PBJIsGood1 t1_jblqh1c wrote
Reply to Miss Vermont by jonschroeder86
came for bikini pics, left disappointed.
OhNo789 t1_jblp9ct wrote
Reply to comment by jonahhillfanaccount in Breakfast spots in Chittenden Co but not BTV by MathGeekVT
Cafe HOT is so good. Good food, coffee, aesthetics, staff. Friendly, helpful, welcoming. Interesting food that is also very familiar.
Loudergood t1_jblp3xe wrote
Reply to comment by whaletacochamp in Breakfast spots in Chittenden Co but not BTV by MathGeekVT
Graceys on Williston Rd is Queen of the Simons.
Extreme-Onion6731 t1_jblp2cm wrote
Cost of living here is very high, but if you can afford it, I believe the quality of life is worth the expense. I live in a small but very liberal town and my kids have several classmates being raised by same sex couples. My kids have LGBTQIA friends who are able to be out safely, and my middle schooler belongs to her school's pride alliance. There are two local school principals who are a married lesbian couple (at different schools, obviously). Not everywhere in VT will be like that though, so definitely research first. Maybe take a family vacation up here and travel around getting a feel for different towns?
[deleted] OP t1_jblo927 wrote
Reply to comment by vtmosaic in What is it like for gay couples with kids in Vermont? by [deleted]
thanks for sharing your experience. I think if you're not gonna plan to be pregnant or send your kids to public school, Florida is probably okay, but I'm in a stage of life where I do not feel comfortable living here any longer.
halfbakedblake t1_jblnpuw wrote
Reply to comment by CARMBLOVER in As someone who lives in Indiana... by CARMBLOVER
Almost sounding human.
vtmosaic t1_jblmyy1 wrote
Vermont as a state government is pretty protective of gay rights. Most communities also are very accepting. I fit the B in LGBTQ acronym, and raised my oldest child in a good sized lesbian community, but we also lived in a pretty accepting average Vermont rural community, where we raised our kids. And that was more than 25 years ago. People have grown increasingly accepting since then.
Like anyplace, there are some jerks. But I completely understand your fear in Florida. Ironically, some of my dear lesbian friends with whom I raised our kids have retired to Florida.
jsled t1_jblmu0b wrote
Reply to Miss Vermont by jonschroeder86
But what does this have to do with Alexina Federhen?
AllyEmmie t1_jblmjhm wrote
Reply to comment by meinblown in What are your favorite local movie theaters? by RinSinn
Sorry to hear that! I like both but the sunset has a lot of good memories for me :)
Butstuff69420 t1_jblm32f wrote
Go to Franklin county and go to Chester’s in Fairfield, worth the drive. Cash only and freshly made bread and baked goods for a great price
hudsoncider t1_jbllqsg wrote
Reply to comment by Impossible_Bonus_746 in Recommend any Marriage Counsellors in the UV? by [deleted]
Great thank you !
vtluvsbrady t1_jblllqv wrote
The grill formerly Ricks Grill in Milton actually has really good breakfast. The home fries are really good 👍🏻
CARMBLOVER OP t1_jbll2px wrote
Reply to comment by 21stCenturyJanes in As someone who lives in Indiana... by CARMBLOVER
You're right!
CARMBLOVER OP t1_jbll1yy wrote
Reply to comment by microfilmer in As someone who lives in Indiana... by CARMBLOVER
Thank you 😊
Loudergood t1_jblumbm wrote
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Old school geosync satellite internet is 42,000km up. The difference is clear.