Recent comments in /f/vermont

ranaparvus t1_jbls4hw wrote

I’m straight but both of my kids are exploring who they are. The communities and schools here are super inclusive. There are some redder areas that will be less friendly - but even in those, if one of you are able to join the volunteer fire/ems service it will go a long way to build respect even with the silly trumpers/don’t tread on me crowd.

Something I was not prepared for here was the hunting. My problem, for sure, but hearing gunfire almost every day when I lived in the sticks was traumatic for me. I’m much happier now in a little town, and ironically my kids love it as they can walk about and have fun with their buddies.

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CalRipkenForCommish t1_jbls3o4 wrote

I have gay family members in VT. They love it and it seems VT is very gay friendly, notwithstanding rednecks scattered about, but there’s no state immune to ignorance and hate. What I like most about Vermonters’ attitude toward the LGBT community is that you wouldn’t even know it’s a thing, it’s “normal,” really. I see what you mean about what is happening in Florida, and the movement toward fascist ideologies is definitely troubling. I think you’d feel right at home in VT. On a separate note, covid brought people from NYC and CT to VT in droves, and property values are still nuts. Anything “affordable” (under $300k) is a probably a fixer upper. I know FL real estate is sky high as well, just thought I’d throw that in, lest you think it’s cheaper in VT

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21stCenturyJanes t1_jblr1bh wrote

Winter is scary but what is happening in Florida is scarier. You will find Vermont is the polar opposite of DeSantis' agenda as far as queer acceptance, abortion rights and education. But the cost of living is high and there is a housing crunch pretty much all over the state right now. And on the other hand, you'll love the people and sense of community. Good luck!

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Extreme-Onion6731 t1_jblp2cm wrote

Cost of living here is very high, but if you can afford it, I believe the quality of life is worth the expense. I live in a small but very liberal town and my kids have several classmates being raised by same sex couples. My kids have LGBTQIA friends who are able to be out safely, and my middle schooler belongs to her school's pride alliance. There are two local school principals who are a married lesbian couple (at different schools, obviously). Not everywhere in VT will be like that though, so definitely research first. Maybe take a family vacation up here and travel around getting a feel for different towns?

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vtmosaic t1_jblmyy1 wrote

Vermont as a state government is pretty protective of gay rights. Most communities also are very accepting. I fit the B in LGBTQ acronym, and raised my oldest child in a good sized lesbian community, but we also lived in a pretty accepting average Vermont rural community, where we raised our kids. And that was more than 25 years ago. People have grown increasingly accepting since then.

Like anyplace, there are some jerks. But I completely understand your fear in Florida. Ironically, some of my dear lesbian friends with whom I raised our kids have retired to Florida.

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