Here's a wild idea: NEITHER. You are trauma bonded to A, and need to move past that. You are attracted to B because you're comparing him to A. You need to get out of romantic relationships altogether at this time, and focus on yourself. When you're mentally healthy, and ready for a normal and loving relationship, then open yourself up to new possibilities.
CrankyWife t1_iy84xhk wrote
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Here's a wild idea: NEITHER. You are trauma bonded to A, and need to move past that. You are attracted to B because you're comparing him to A. You need to get out of romantic relationships altogether at this time, and focus on yourself. When you're mentally healthy, and ready for a normal and loving relationship, then open yourself up to new possibilities.