EarthExile
EarthExile t1_iujhiki wrote
Reply to comment by Bathroomtrader in Outrageous ideologues running for Board of Education in your town? by Throwaway103122CT
Depends on the private school, be very aware
EarthExile t1_iujgg6z wrote
Reply to comment by maxanderson350 in Outrageous ideologues running for Board of Education in your town? by Throwaway103122CT
Your points imply that there is some risk inherent to kids being gay and their parents not knowing yet, but I don't see the actual harm there. I am very familiar with the harm inherent in outing people, even adults- they can face ostracism, abuse, discrimination, lose their jobs, etc. But the other side of the coin is not apparent to me at all.
EarthExile t1_iujdb9x wrote
Reply to comment by maxanderson350 in Outrageous ideologues running for Board of Education in your town? by Throwaway103122CT
What is the potential harm that outing children averts? I honestly have been trying to think of anything.
EarthExile t1_iuj46z1 wrote
The Republicans are fascists. No asterisk, it's the whole thing.
EarthExile t1_iuj3wfz wrote
Reply to comment by maxanderson350 in Outrageous ideologues running for Board of Education in your town? by Throwaway103122CT
So right there is an excellent reason not to have schools police childrens' sexualities and report them to their parents. School was my refuge from the abuse of my parents.
EarthExile t1_iuj24h9 wrote
Reply to comment by maxanderson350 in Outrageous ideologues running for Board of Education in your town? by Throwaway103122CT
You are gay and married to another gay person, do neither of you know any of the countless people who'd have been abused and/or disowned if their parents had known? I'm straight and I know a bunch of them.
EarthExile t1_iuj1tck wrote
This is weird, I don't really buy it. The hero/savior bullshit that Trump's ass-lickers do is not cool, and that's not only because he's a fascist. No man should be worshipped.
EarthExile t1_iu50qbr wrote
Reply to comment by RudeNarwhal8 in Connecticut ranked most stressed state in the country, new study reveals by Qbase11
Yeah, the article. It doesn't really make a case for CT being the "most stressed" at all
EarthExile t1_iu4n5pp wrote
Reply to comment by Suspicious-Abies-653 in Any CT teachers in here? by [deleted]
I do see why a lot of people would not want their kids to learn about why their parents' beliefs are harmful and ignorant. That's why the parents must be countered. They are wrong.
EarthExile t1_iu4hex9 wrote
Reply to comment by Suspicious-Abies-653 in Any CT teachers in here? by [deleted]
If your perspective is that America doesn't have a racism problem, then yeah. Ignorance and apathy are important parts of white supremacy. You don't have to scream slurs at people to participate in racism. Looking the other way does most of the harm by itself.
EarthExile t1_iu4dj43 wrote
Reply to comment by Suspicious-Abies-653 in Any CT teachers in here? by [deleted]
Believing that our culture is not riddled with the legacy and effects of racism is a way of being incorrect. It's the truth. Racism was literally the law for most of our history. I am married to someone a different color than me, which was illegal until just a few decades ago until a Supreme Court case had to override a lot of state laws. To pretend that racism is not woven into the fabric of American history and life is to be ignorant of reality.
And nobody's education is "race first."
This is why your perspective must be opposed and counteracted. If the ignorance is allowed to continue, the damage can never be healed.
EarthExile t1_iu49ste wrote
Reply to comment by Suspicious-Abies-653 in Any CT teachers in here? by [deleted]
My position is anti-racism, so... no. If people have a problem with anti-racism, they're racist. That's the only place the objection could come from.
EarthExile t1_iu3z6l2 wrote
Reply to comment by Suspicious-Abies-653 in Any CT teachers in here? by [deleted]
There's no reason to dance around it. Racists are idiots, and society needs them not to fuck their kids up. The rest of us will have to deal with the adults they become.
EarthExile t1_iu3y54i wrote
Reply to comment by Suspicious-Abies-653 in Any CT teachers in here? by [deleted]
Yes.
EarthExile t1_iu3wcym wrote
Reply to comment by Suspicious-Abies-653 in Any CT teachers in here? by [deleted]
Because parents often don't teach them, or teach the opposite on purpose. My parents raised me to be racist as shit, and the only reason I am not is that I got away and learned from other people.
EarthExile t1_iu105va wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in Any CT teachers in here? by [deleted]
If that was true, you'd have looked this thing up instead of coming here to make bitchy implications
EarthExile t1_iu0o133 wrote
Reply to comment by glymeme in Any CT teachers in here? by [deleted]
Correct, but remember- these people aren't really upset about CRT. They're mad about the concept of respect for different cultures, empathy, and skills to negotiate differences. They don't want the white supremacy of their personal beliefs interfered with.
EarthExile t1_iu0npy6 wrote
Reply to Any CT teachers in here? by [deleted]
Whatever you're talking about is not Critical Race Theory. Relax. The memes have lied to you.
EarthExile t1_itz76d8 wrote
Reply to comment by Loud_Caregiver_4213 in Governor Ned Lamont by TyFox53
Your objections are irrelevant nonsense. A nation can have a military and internet trolls at the same time. Russia isn't one guy with a to-do list. And we've already seen extensive proof that they fuck with our elections and social media. There's no mystery.
You're objecting to reality based on nothing. That's why you take random swings at insulting me, instead of putting forth any counterpoint.
EarthExile t1_itz5dce wrote
Reply to comment by Loud_Caregiver_4213 in Governor Ned Lamont by TyFox53
Every cult does this. When cornered on the facts, members default to treating outsiders as though they're insane. This is because you can't form a coherent counterpoint and you knew that before you started bloviating.
EarthExile t1_itz39e9 wrote
Reply to comment by Loud_Caregiver_4213 in Governor Ned Lamont by TyFox53
Why wouldn't they? If your goal is to support Republican traitors in their political efforts, and a Republican is running in CT, you're going to get involved in CT elections. This really isn't complicated.
CT elects Republican traitor governors from time to time, it's not like the goal is impossible.
EarthExile t1_itz1kyy wrote
Reply to comment by Loud_Caregiver_4213 in Governor Ned Lamont by TyFox53
This is really complicated, try to keep up:
Connecticut residents vote in elections.
EarthExile t1_itvzdc7 wrote
Reply to comment by FishingNo8650 in New Poll Shows Lamont Up 11 Points by NewsHugh
The leaders are just a summary of the voters. Bob is what Republicans are and want. They're fucking terrible, stupid people
EarthExile t1_itv8e60 wrote
Reply to comment by gatogrande in Landlords sued for price fixing by buried_lede
Well now I'm confused. Are you some kind of joke bot that I'm not understanding?
EarthExile t1_iujpd1j wrote
Reply to comment by maxanderson350 in Outrageous ideologues running for Board of Education in your town? by Throwaway103122CT
Maybe this is the difference between us, you're speaking from the perspective of a parent who is open and welcoming of their kid, and wants to do right by them. But I doubt you're the kind of parent whose kid would feel the need to conceal themselves from you.
I'm thinking about the parents I had, the kinds of people who will take a kid's door off the hinges if they suspect there's masturbation taking place, or beat them savagely for 'seeming queer.' People like that don't have a trusting bond in the first place, just authority and wants.
If I told my parents I was gay, they wouldn't customize my sex education and get me on prep, they'd kick my ass and keep me from my friends.