EarthExile

EarthExile t1_iujpd1j wrote

Maybe this is the difference between us, you're speaking from the perspective of a parent who is open and welcoming of their kid, and wants to do right by them. But I doubt you're the kind of parent whose kid would feel the need to conceal themselves from you.

I'm thinking about the parents I had, the kinds of people who will take a kid's door off the hinges if they suspect there's masturbation taking place, or beat them savagely for 'seeming queer.' People like that don't have a trusting bond in the first place, just authority and wants.

If I told my parents I was gay, they wouldn't customize my sex education and get me on prep, they'd kick my ass and keep me from my friends.

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EarthExile t1_iujgg6z wrote

Your points imply that there is some risk inherent to kids being gay and their parents not knowing yet, but I don't see the actual harm there. I am very familiar with the harm inherent in outing people, even adults- they can face ostracism, abuse, discrimination, lose their jobs, etc. But the other side of the coin is not apparent to me at all.

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EarthExile t1_iu4hex9 wrote

If your perspective is that America doesn't have a racism problem, then yeah. Ignorance and apathy are important parts of white supremacy. You don't have to scream slurs at people to participate in racism. Looking the other way does most of the harm by itself.

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EarthExile t1_iu4dj43 wrote

Believing that our culture is not riddled with the legacy and effects of racism is a way of being incorrect. It's the truth. Racism was literally the law for most of our history. I am married to someone a different color than me, which was illegal until just a few decades ago until a Supreme Court case had to override a lot of state laws. To pretend that racism is not woven into the fabric of American history and life is to be ignorant of reality.

And nobody's education is "race first."

This is why your perspective must be opposed and counteracted. If the ignorance is allowed to continue, the damage can never be healed.

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EarthExile t1_iu0o133 wrote

Reply to comment by glymeme in Any CT teachers in here? by [deleted]

Correct, but remember- these people aren't really upset about CRT. They're mad about the concept of respect for different cultures, empathy, and skills to negotiate differences. They don't want the white supremacy of their personal beliefs interfered with.

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EarthExile t1_itz76d8 wrote

Reply to comment by Loud_Caregiver_4213 in Governor Ned Lamont by TyFox53

Your objections are irrelevant nonsense. A nation can have a military and internet trolls at the same time. Russia isn't one guy with a to-do list. And we've already seen extensive proof that they fuck with our elections and social media. There's no mystery.

You're objecting to reality based on nothing. That's why you take random swings at insulting me, instead of putting forth any counterpoint.

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EarthExile t1_itz5dce wrote

Reply to comment by Loud_Caregiver_4213 in Governor Ned Lamont by TyFox53

Every cult does this. When cornered on the facts, members default to treating outsiders as though they're insane. This is because you can't form a coherent counterpoint and you knew that before you started bloviating.

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EarthExile t1_itz39e9 wrote

Reply to comment by Loud_Caregiver_4213 in Governor Ned Lamont by TyFox53

Why wouldn't they? If your goal is to support Republican traitors in their political efforts, and a Republican is running in CT, you're going to get involved in CT elections. This really isn't complicated.

CT elects Republican traitor governors from time to time, it's not like the goal is impossible.

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