GsTSaien
GsTSaien t1_iu7s4pt wrote
Reply to LPT: If you receive a compliment, don’t respond by downplaying it, or giving a compliment in return by MO_drps_knwldg
I think you are overthinking this.
GsTSaien t1_ithkwpp wrote
Reply to [Tool] All of the problems in this world could be solved with a motivated populace who prided themselves on being involved with the intellectual debates of the day with a good faith effort to make things better. by straight-lampin
Or a truly intelligent benevolent world dictator.
Doesn't change the fact these are both fantasies that failed in their conception.
GsTSaien t1_it4h5ot wrote
I hate that your takeaway is that you ruined your chance to bang her and not that you hurt your friend.
You learnt nothing.
Edit: more importantly, her telling you it is too soon just means she doesn't want to date you and just wanted to be friends. You should not have asked her out again. You should, especially not, ever, list "harsh truths" for why she should date you. That is very concerning language to describe what is most likely delusions you hold to be truths.
You are not even aware of how shit you were to her.
GsTSaien t1_iqphuhi wrote
Reply to TIFU by kissing a guy on the cheek by pettyclassymolassy
Ok calm down.
He is into you, 100%.
He asked for a kiss, and you only kissed his cheek, you did not breach consent or make him uncomfortable.
It is ok to be silly and romantic and run away because you got flustered, just rail it back a bit so that you can have and maintain grounded expectations.
If you aren't talking recently, it is most likely because YOU have stopped. Ask him if he wants to go out again, he will tell you if he doesn't.
Enjoy yourself, don't worry about how people look at you as long as you stay safe.
Good luck.
GsTSaien t1_iw418bn wrote
Reply to [Image] Your choice... by Gainsborough-Smythe
Absolutely not. Making myself miserable is CONSIDERABLY easier.