You've been dating for ONLY 4 months and it is already getting hard?

I don't think it's worth the effort, personally.

Talking to him hasn't helped at all, it's too soon to get counseling, it isn't even serious yet.

Can you move closer to the job?

Wow, you are very sweet.

He sounds like he needs to find a job closer. That's a ton of travel. I'm exhausted reading about it.

My 2 cents is to leave. He isn't willing to change. If he even made some effort it might be different, but he's stuck and not willing to get unstuck.

I'm going to sound heartless, but what he does is on him, not you. It's not your problem. He has created a black hole for himself by not even trying to get better. You can't fix him or help him at this point.

Save yourself and get out of this relationship. Can you really spend another day in this hell? Can you imagine how free you will feel without his abuse? Please leave.

Also, there is a fine line between suicide and murder. Violence is violence and you are in danger.

Oh god, I am so sorry. You have been through hell and seems like your fiancee just wants to double down on your misery.

First, though I don't know your mother I do know that YOU are not the reason she committed suicide so wipe that thought out of your head.

You are going to feel some relief even if you are sad. This woman is a terrible person. Can you also get custody of your child? That child has been indirectly abused by her as well for the way she treats you. Can you file a court order for custody? Put your love into that child. She doesn't deserve you.

OH HELL NO! Do not give this woman your eggs. You have a limited number of eggs and if you decide to have children you may not be able to after this procedure.

Also, you know she is a shit mother. Why would you do that to another child? It's cruel. She doesn't deserve another child.

You need a plan. The thing that will make you feel better is having a plan to act on. To do that you need to find a lawyer or counselor.

You said you liked photography? Offer to do headshots for people for a couple of hundred bucks. I know someone who does this for LinkedIn profiles and makes a killing. She is in NY and now has a booming business. Or photograph something else. You can find dozens of online communities on how to get started and free classes on photo editing.

Once you start taking some kind of action you will feel less lost. Make yourself do something for 30 minutes each day. No excuses.

I think apologizing is a wonderful gesture. Maybe invite her out for tea or coffee and do it in person.

You don't have any friends? For real? You definitely should make some if you don't have any. That isn't healthy at all.

Since I don't know what your BF said, I can't judge if he's out of line. Not sure what talking crap is.

What types of things do you want him to say? This is very vague.

It's not your fault. Don't sweat it.

Well, I thought I could give advice, but you being in Iran makes it very complicated. Is your BF extremely conservative?

Wow. That is really hard. I can't even imagine this. Thank you for sharing.

ohhhh, wow. She stole your money. Banks don't make that kind of mistake. I've worked in banking for 25 years.

Tell her you know she spent the money and will give her a payment plan to pay it back. Then set it up and make her sign the agreement. Tell her if she doesn't you will ask the police to investigate the bank. I bet she comes clean.