Reading from what you have written, I find it weird that she keeps bringing up the topic in front of you every time, and if you participate in the conversation, she blames you for it. Are you guys engaged yet or something? If I were you, I would spend some more time trying to understand the person. Don't jump into marriage without knowing what their actual nature is, and if you can handle it.
As for the potential childhood trauma. I would say let nature take its course. You cross the bridge when you reach there. Sometimes people find it difficult to handle and understand what happens with them.
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Reply to GF keeps on giving hints that there is something about her which she will only share after marriage. by nisary
Reading from what you have written, I find it weird that she keeps bringing up the topic in front of you every time, and if you participate in the conversation, she blames you for it. Are you guys engaged yet or something? If I were you, I would spend some more time trying to understand the person. Don't jump into marriage without knowing what their actual nature is, and if you can handle it.
As for the potential childhood trauma. I would say let nature take its course. You cross the bridge when you reach there. Sometimes people find it difficult to handle and understand what happens with them.