I don’t think it’s time for an ultimatum yet. I think you need to sit down for a conversation (when things are going well and explain your POV. If she doesn’t listen to you or continues making excuses for her best friend I’d highly recommend you have pre-marital counseling with a professional or even a relationship counsellor given that your relationship is established.
NotMyCircus170 t1_jaf25q2 wrote
Reply to I(M27)know ultimatums are a no-go, but I won’t accept 3 people (F22/F21) in my marriage. by throwrajigz
I don’t think it’s time for an ultimatum yet. I think you need to sit down for a conversation (when things are going well and explain your POV. If she doesn’t listen to you or continues making excuses for her best friend I’d highly recommend you have pre-marital counseling with a professional or even a relationship counsellor given that your relationship is established.