She does spend the night at my place

Made no sense dude. Why

I said it to her face. I treat you the way you treat me. Don't be surprised if the relationship does not grow. I actually told her I felt low and would be nice If we're together just this one night. Still she did not agree..

She has no problems when there's no work. But still complains that its too much preparation when I come over

She said she has to work the next day and can't sleep well when Im there