TreatThompson
TreatThompson OP t1_jbhku9a wrote
Reply to comment by Adi_San in Running from life is a great way to make yourself miserable [Discussion] by TreatThompson
Hmmm okay I see the question is mainly about what not to run from. What is the abstract idea of “life” that I propose were running from
My answer to that is the present. And that can be present desires, present thoughts, present feelings, etc.
A tangible example is something common I hear about a lot—someone really wants to start a YouTube channel but is absolutely full of fear about it. They may escape this desire by making themselves busy. They could start a new house project and then say “It sucks I just don’t have the time to get started on this YouTube channel”
Or I know I’ve personally been guilty of convincing myself that work is actually busier than it seems, so I don’t have the energy to start a new project that I find daunting
Hope that example makes sense 😅
TreatThompson OP t1_jbhi2zz wrote
Reply to comment by WhatAreYou_Casual in Running from life is a great way to make yourself miserable [Discussion] by TreatThompson
Haha you asked where are you going with that but that was a quality spew
Think you’re dead on
It’s definitely an attention war right now. That’s a huge commodity right now
Great sentiment at the end—thanks for sharing 😄
TreatThompson OP t1_jbhhqrz wrote
Reply to comment by Sunshay in Running from life is a great way to make yourself miserable [Discussion] by TreatThompson
I definitely get your point, there’s alot of abstract here so it’s confusing to find something practical to apply
The mental escape part in my perspective is being stuck in the past or obsessing about the future aka not being present
Sometimes I’d fall into a pattern of “I’ll be happy once I get this.” Like when I graduate university then I can enjoy myself. Then it was when I get a full time job then I can enjoy myself. Then it was when I get a raise/promotion then I’ll truly be satisfied. That’s one escape. I wrote off the present and just made life about the future. The anxiety over stability and comfort made me keep moving the goal post.
Or being lost in the past. I’d glorify the past and not bother trying to make the present great because it just won’t reach the level of satisfaction the past had.
I hope these examples offer some more clarity!
Also I’m right there with on introspection. I think a alot of people coukd benefit from that reflection and “analysis” of the self
Thanks for sharing!! 😄
TreatThompson OP t1_jbh9x2e wrote
I like to think about this quote too when it comes to this:
“All of humanity's problems stem from mans inability to sit quietly in a room alone.”—Blaise Pascal
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TreatThompson OP t1_jbh6okg wrote
Reply to comment by WhimsicalUnknown in I’m not good enough to be disappointed in myself [Discussion] by TreatThompson
Wow this is great encouraging advice!
Thank you so much for sharing; hope others see it too 😄
TreatThompson OP t1_jbaymt2 wrote
Reply to comment by Yarddogkodabear in I’m not good enough to be disappointed in myself [Discussion] by TreatThompson
Haha that’s what I keep hearing! Everyone says it’s grueling
I’m ready for it
TreatThompson OP t1_jbayfag wrote
Reply to comment by Yarddogkodabear in I’m not good enough to be disappointed in myself [Discussion] by TreatThompson
Hey it’s nice to hear that!!
I haven’t yet fallen on a particular style that I’m drawn to most, I’m sure it will pop up as I keep going
TreatThompson OP t1_jbamf5r wrote
Thinking about this reminded me of another quote:
"The master has failed more times than the beginner has tried"—Stephen McCranie
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TreatThompson OP t1_j9wrds3 wrote
Reply to comment by Deagar1 in Ask yourself what you would do if there was no chance of failing [Discussion] by TreatThompson
LOOL love it 😂 throw back
TreatThompson OP t1_j9wk20l wrote
Reply to comment by AngryBagOfDeath in Ask yourself what you would do if there was no chance of failing [Discussion] by TreatThompson
That’s definitely a good point! The chance of failure creates the tension that makes those types of excursions so fun
At least you know that’s something you’d like to accomplish if you could be successful at it 😄
TreatThompson OP t1_j9wdgbw wrote
Reply to comment by WhatWouldSatanDo in Ask yourself what you would do if there was no chance of failing [Discussion] by TreatThompson
Underrated answer
TreatThompson OP t1_j9w1m05 wrote
Reply to comment by smoakee in Ask yourself what you would do if there was no chance of failing [Discussion] by TreatThompson
In some sense yeah it does!
In another sense standing on the shoulders of giants is more exciting because we get to blaze new trails that they couldn’t blaze. Progress is made by building off the backs of what others did
We get to pick up the mantle and take it further, rather than running the same race they did.
So by doing it alone and ignoring the giants we just do what they did already, which sounds a little boring
Hope that makes sense 😅 it’s definitely open to interpretation—I don’t think there’s a one size fits all advice for anything
TreatThompson OP t1_j9v8qy1 wrote
Reply to comment by ElboMan in Ask yourself what you would do if there was no chance of failing [Discussion] by TreatThompson
😂 simple as that
TreatThompson OP t1_j9v8npw wrote
Reply to comment by whyxwhy in Ask yourself what you would do if there was no chance of failing [Discussion] by TreatThompson
That’s a question I think about a lot
Dedicating your life to doing good is a switch that usually flips later in life. I wonder if it’s because later in life we’re more financially secure or we’re wise enough to realize that that’s what matters
Either way this has me thinking right now!
Thanks for sharing 🙌
TreatThompson OP t1_j9urg6o wrote
Reply to Ask yourself what you would do if there was no chance of failing [Discussion] by TreatThompson
It makes me think of this quote:
"Fear kills more dreams than failure ever will."—Suzy Kassem
It shows how powerful the fear of failure is.
It also shows that many people don’t get as far as failure killing their dream. They stop at the fear of failure. They give up before they even start. They kill their idea without giving it a fighting chance.
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TreatThompson OP t1_j8sev39 wrote
Reply to comment by deborah-southgate in Getting started matters more than getting it right [Discussion] by TreatThompson
That is very well said!
We never know the true impact of something—the butterfly effect can show itself years later
TreatThompson OP t1_j8nxvno wrote
Reply to comment by SlowdownTitoDAMN in I rather fail 100 times than play it safe [Discussion] by TreatThompson
Haha I love that
Sums up what I was trying to say perfectly! 😄
TreatThompson OP t1_j8morak wrote
Reply to comment by UwaNtItwiX in Getting started matters more than getting it right [Discussion] by TreatThompson
That’s a great concept
I subscribe with that too
I forget who said it, but I read in life we can float with the tide or try to force ourselves down a path
I definitely choose to float with the tide when it comes to what direction I go towards
Thanks for sharing!
TreatThompson OP t1_j8kodwe wrote
Reply to comment by No-Ad8720 in Getting started matters more than getting it right [Discussion] by TreatThompson
I definitely can get into overthinking bouts too
Glad this clicked with you! 😄
TreatThompson OP t1_j8kbe38 wrote
Reply to comment by XueShiLong in I rather fail 100 times than play it safe [Discussion] by TreatThompson
That quote is just too perfect
Nothing more really needs to be said than that 🙌
TreatThompson OP t1_j8k6kut wrote
I always think about this quote when it comes to this
"The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The second best time is now."—Chinese Proverb
If I wanted the success today the best time to start would've been years ago. But since I didn't, the second-best time is now.
TreatThompson OP t1_jbhvytz wrote
Reply to comment by tritium3 in Running from life is a great way to make yourself miserable [Discussion] by TreatThompson
I’m sorry to hear that! I’m glad you can recognize the positives though, that’s inspiring to read
Thanks for sharing that😄