alinish t1_iy7izop wrote on November 29, 2022 at 9:18 AM

Reply to comment by [deleted] in Do I Pick A or B - We are all in our 20s. LDR, Relationship with an Addict. by [deleted]

i hope you find your happiness <3 Don't settle !
ask yourself what you would say to a friend / your daughter if she'd went through the same! we are here to support you

alinish t1_iy7grla wrote on November 29, 2022 at 8:45 AM

Reply to Do I Pick A or B - We are all in our 20s. LDR, Relationship with an Addict. by [deleted]

>my family does love him

Do they know about the physical abuse?

also - CLEARLY go for B!!!
girl you deserve sooo much better.
the fact that you are afraid B will not like you 100% due to the past you have with A.
allow yourself to set yourself free and get what is good for you.
allow yourself to get better and grow, it sounds like B would help you with this a lot.

I hope you chose your happiness. <3