dupattaluella

dupattaluella t1_iujsf0n wrote

>I wanted to text him but decided not to , if he wanted to see me again he’d text me . I don’t understand what happened and what went wrong , if it did .

Use this same logic on yourself. If you wanted to see him again you'd text him. He may not understand what happened and what went wrong, if it did.

You even said yourself you were supposed to stay over then didn't due to an appointment. He may have thought you changed your mind over something he did.

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dupattaluella t1_iuih2fq wrote

Take this as a learning experience. Don't put yourself in situations like these in the future. Not only did you black out, but you were grinding on another man.

Just imagine if that other man didn't realize how drunk you were and thought you were making a move. You could have slept with him without being aware at the time. This is why people need to be aware of their drinking limit and not place themselves in compromising situations, especially when drugs and alcohol are involved.

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dupattaluella t1_iue4rhy wrote

Yes. Black mold, floors could be shit, carpet could be difficult to remove, carpet pad could have mold, carpet pad could be difficult to remove, floors could be tough to refinish, floors might not be able to be refinished, and the carpet may not be able to be reused and OP would have to purchase new carpet and new carpet pad.

Almost anything could arise. Which is why it's not smart to invest time and money fixing up a place that isn't yours.

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