You could try couples counseling to see if you can learn to communicate.

I wouldn't. The violence is a deal breaker for me.

Yow, well boy #2 is a little better but he needs to go too.

It takes two to fix, he ain't participating.

Are we sure the first one was the toxic relationship?

Maybe she is not that into you? Have that conversation with her.

Dont date dad. Find some one on a similar life path to you.

Seems like you are not getting what you need out of the relationship. You have asked for it, and you still are not getting it.

Dump him

Move out.

Ignore him.

Its a bit odd. When your married with kids it makes more sense.

For now just politely decline

>but people start to show their true colors after a few months…

Sad to say this is fairly common.

It means he figures a good defense is a strong offense, and when you question him he goes into attack mode. Not the greatest way to communicate in a relationship. Do you want to be yelled at for the next 30 years? If so stick with him.

Just go cold on him. Don't answer his texts, don't pick up his calls. When you do talk to him, and he talks about getting back together just say "no, thank you". Nothing more to argue with

If you are such a sexual person, why did you agree to celibacy?

Sexual compatibility is very important in a marriage, you should try it before you buy it.

I think you are screwed with this girl. Maybe you can change the rules of engagement, but whether she agrees or not I have no idea. May as well try.

Next girl don't do something that goes against your base instincts

Don't give him anything

Find someone who wants to be with you.

Stop bringing your friends home.

I would strongly suggest you do not get a pixie cut hairstyle

She needs psychiatric help you can not provide. Point her at a real psychiatrist, you are not it.

Her showing up at your school is a huge red flag. Do not give her money or let her in where you live unescorted

Get on the same page as fdh, and stop talking to her about it.

She has declared war on you. Best way to fight it is ignore her and just live your best life. Do what you want when you want and don't listen to her.

30 days. If you are mouring with her.

Yeah, you need to tell her then the both of you need to work out a strategy for dealing with her parents

44 ÷ 2 + 7 = 29

Old wives would approve, if you started a couple years ago, not so much

You can't, sorry to say. She will only get better when she wants to and goes to rehab. Until then there isn't much you can do for her.

Obvious stuff, don't give her any money or rides to her friends. You can offer to pay for and take her to rehab but don't give her the money for her to pay for it. You give that to the rehab place yourself.