I would probably take the same position tbh: it’s awkward to take at your SOs parents house, and usually tiring because you’re on your best behaviour and trying to be courteous, and you’re also introducing elements of him being an emotional crutch for hard conversations. Who wouldn’t dread this type of visit?
Beyond that, it’s possible he doesn’t want to be stranded at their place for so many days at a time, and has other priorities that are on his mind that he could accomplish in that time. Could he visit for just one night so it’s more manageable and reasonable?
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I would probably take the same position tbh: it’s awkward to take at your SOs parents house, and usually tiring because you’re on your best behaviour and trying to be courteous, and you’re also introducing elements of him being an emotional crutch for hard conversations. Who wouldn’t dread this type of visit?
Beyond that, it’s possible he doesn’t want to be stranded at their place for so many days at a time, and has other priorities that are on his mind that he could accomplish in that time. Could he visit for just one night so it’s more manageable and reasonable?