pineboxwaiting
pineboxwaiting t1_iydgd7v wrote
Reply to Mother (50F) admits she likes my husband (30M) more than she likes me (30M), she has always favored him, and now I know why - where do I even go from here? by [deleted]
The main thing I got out of all of this? You need to leave Nate, the physically abusive boyfriend who humiliated you at Thanksgiving. Why are you still with him?
Keeping far away from your toxic mother is also a good plan.
pineboxwaiting t1_iydas0e wrote
Reply to GF keeps on giving hints that there is something about her which she will only share after marriage. by nisary
It sounds like she’s the victim of sexual abuse & thinks you’ll leave her because she’s not a virgin.
Telling this horrible part of her life is painful - but she did want to tell you bc she kept bringing it up.
She probably needs psychological help, but I imagine this isn’t possible.
All you can do is keep talking to her.
pineboxwaiting t1_iyd9h0p wrote
Reply to Is he worth it? by [deleted]
You have a kid. Being able to eat is your priority, not some dude.
Thinking of moving in with him? Don’t. Way too soon.
pineboxwaiting t1_iydia2i wrote
Reply to comment by ThrowRApeachcake in Mother (50F) admits she likes my husband (30M) more than she likes me (30M), she has always favored him, and now I know why - where do I even go from here? by [deleted]
Do you have a job? Money of your own? Things like that? Or are you completely dependent on him & your family?