vexingsilence
vexingsilence t1_j563vdt wrote
Reply to comment by Wiked_Pissah in This is currently an anti-trans bill sitting in our house at the moment, and frankly, I don’t see enough people talking about it. by Jtagz
>But as someone who actually knows people that have been abused, bullied and looked down on by people like you, I would stand by them a 1000x over.
That's a strange stance considering that you're proposing abuse to vulnerable people that aren't able to consent.
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>But rather by the hateful bigot that felt the need to push their views on other people.
That's pretty much what I'm against. People who would force children into things they're not ready for.
vexingsilence t1_j563e66 wrote
Reply to comment by youarelookingatthis in This is currently an anti-trans bill sitting in our house at the moment, and frankly, I don’t see enough people talking about it. by Jtagz
I just posted some actual testimony. If you think children are old enough to consent to this type of thing, makes me wonder what else you want them to be able to consent to.
vexingsilence t1_j562czd wrote
Reply to comment by youarelookingatthis in This is currently an anti-trans bill sitting in our house at the moment, and frankly, I don’t see enough people talking about it. by Jtagz
Wanting to pressure children down a path they're not responsible enough to be able to consent to is child abuse, simple as that.
vexingsilence t1_j5614yg wrote
Reply to comment by youarelookingatthis in This is currently an anti-trans bill sitting in our house at the moment, and frankly, I don’t see enough people talking about it. by Jtagz
I trust the sources I posted a lot more than I trust Vice. Vice is trash, has been for a long time. They're an opinion site, nothing more, and their opinions always skew one way.
Wanting to protect children is not hate or any type of phobia. Once they're adults, once their minds are developed enough to be able to consent and be able to recognize peer pressure and the impact of constant exposure to social media, they're free to do what they want.
vexingsilence t1_j560hsy wrote
Reply to comment by Wiked_Pissah in This is currently an anti-trans bill sitting in our house at the moment, and frankly, I don’t see enough people talking about it. by Jtagz
>Ask any gay person if they think being gay is a mental illness.
Doctors used to define it that way, before changing not based on anything tangible, but due to pressure from the public.
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> I hope you get punched in the face for the question.
Condoning violence towards people with opinions that you don't like. Nice.
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>Not to automatically label them as mentally ill.
You're basically stigmatizing mental illness.
vexingsilence t1_j55ybep wrote
vexingsilence t1_j55wtox wrote
Reply to comment by youarelookingatthis in This is currently an anti-trans bill sitting in our house at the moment, and frankly, I don’t see enough people talking about it. by Jtagz
Versus being bullied or pressured into something they don't want and aren't yet able to recognize as such? That's why we call them children. They're not adults.
vexingsilence t1_j55uo2c wrote
Reply to comment by Educational-Eye4657 in This is currently an anti-trans bill sitting in our house at the moment, and frankly, I don’t see enough people talking about it. by Jtagz
That would be abuse considering the child cannot consent.
vexingsilence t1_j55ufpl wrote
Reply to comment by Educational-Eye4657 in This is currently an anti-trans bill sitting in our house at the moment, and frankly, I don’t see enough people talking about it. by Jtagz
It's absolutely my business when it's in the public schools and affects people within my community. Child abusers would say the same thing, none of anyone else's business, right?
It's gender dysphoria, it's absolutely a mental illness.
vexingsilence t1_j55tgm6 wrote
Reply to comment by MiggySmalls6767 in This is currently an anti-trans bill sitting in our house at the moment, and frankly, I don’t see enough people talking about it. by Jtagz
>Block being allowed to make your own medical decisions?
They're children. Children don't get to make their own medical decisions.
vexingsilence t1_j55t5du wrote
Reply to comment by Educational-Eye4657 in This is currently an anti-trans bill sitting in our house at the moment, and frankly, I don’t see enough people talking about it. by Jtagz
They're not. They're delaying the decision until the only individual that would be affected by it is able to consent.
vexingsilence t1_j55snnl wrote
Reply to comment by No1_Nozits_Me in This is currently an anti-trans bill sitting in our house at the moment, and frankly, I don’t see enough people talking about it. by Jtagz
I've read many reports of boys who were underdeveloped, not as strong or as big as the other boys at their age levels, end up getting peer pressured into thinking they're actually girls and pretty much get pushed into some form of transitioning, only to later realize it's not at all what they wanted. There are a lot of truly disturbing stories out there. Having been bullied for being thin as a child, it's chilling to imagine what school would have been like if I were that age now. It was pretty terrible as it was, without all this grooming going on. I don't know how anyone can view it as anything other than child abuse.
vexingsilence t1_j55rln7 wrote
Reply to comment by Educational-Eye4657 in This is currently an anti-trans bill sitting in our house at the moment, and frankly, I don’t see enough people talking about it. by Jtagz
>If you're for children having the right to live happily, then I also feel you must acknowledge that trans and gender-nonconforming adolescents have the highest rates of suicide and depression among any demographic.
Yes, they're mentally ill. They need treatment for their mental illness. Altering their body to support their disturbed thoughts while their brain is still developing isn't a good approach, you don't need a PhD to realize that.
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>In today's world, it is too easy for us to forget that individual liberty exists and needs to be protected.
As adults. Until then, the health and safety of children must be protected.
vexingsilence t1_j55qo9x wrote
Reply to comment by youarelookingatthis in This is currently an anti-trans bill sitting in our house at the moment, and frankly, I don’t see enough people talking about it. by Jtagz
Children aren't generally afforded the same rights as adults. They don't yet possess the mental faculties to make adult decisions.
vexingsilence t1_j55q5gz wrote
Reply to comment by Kv603 in Reports of hate crimes in New Hampshire quadruple in past 4 years, officials say by rabblebowser
"Agency twists facts to justify own existence." That should have been the article, but it's WMUR.
vexingsilence t1_j55pujp wrote
Reply to comment by Hungry-Big-2107 in Reports of hate crimes in New Hampshire quadruple in past 4 years, officials say by rabblebowser
What do you think reddit is, exactly?
vexingsilence t1_j48hup1 wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in Question regarding electricity bills… by [deleted]
We depend too much on natural gas for electricity. If you lived in the neighboring province of Québec, electric heat would be a no-brainer thanks to their hydro-electric power.
vexingsilence t1_j3tumpq wrote
Reply to comment by MikeG782 in Business noise complaint by MikeG782
>The problem with the local noise ordinance is it is for dwellings only.
Not much you're going to be able to do if you can't convince the business to accommodate you. Maybe install better insulation and windows in the home? That's a solution used for homes near noisy airports. The NH RSA isn't likely to help. You'd have to get the town onboard and they're probably going to side with business given its zoning.
vexingsilence t1_j3lsi2a wrote
Reply to Modified/lifted truck inspections by Confident-House-392
People normally keep a set of "inspection tires". Something tiny that will bring the vehicle down to spec. Not saying I condone it.. but that's what many people do. Other option if you ride private trails is to trailer it, if you can afford a daily-driver/tow-rig.
vexingsilence t1_j34uf19 wrote
Reply to comment by Rolling_Beardo in Love Free or Die - but get a second job. by oldhead
Average of the bottom ten job categories bottoms out at $11.59 and the number of people employed at those lowest categories is practically nil. There isn't a problem for the state to solve here.
vexingsilence t1_j34rwp1 wrote
Reply to comment by Rolling_Beardo in Love Free or Die - but get a second job. by oldhead
Scroll up to the document I linked. Even the lowest job category is averaging above $15/hr.
vexingsilence t1_j34dnup wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in Love Free or Die - but get a second job. by oldhead
If you look at the pdf I linked, average for food prep, the lowest category, was $16.21/hr in the first table. I don't know what you're going on about.
vexingsilence t1_j33xif8 wrote
Reply to comment by Queasy_Turnover in Love Free or Die - but get a second job. by oldhead
I don't have that stat offhand, but the state published a lot of info here:
https://www.nhes.nh.gov/elmi/products/documents/wages-all.pdf
vexingsilence t1_j33q1do wrote
Reply to Love Free or Die - but get a second job. by oldhead
This actually follows the motto, the state leaves it up to employers to figure out. I posted the stat in another thread recently, but only 1% of NH workers make minimum wage. That's why we don't set it higher than the national, there's no reason to.
vexingsilence t1_j566h13 wrote
Reply to comment by CocoTheElder in This is currently an anti-trans bill sitting in our house at the moment, and frankly, I don’t see enough people talking about it. by Jtagz
Doesn't change the fact that children can't consent.